Honestly, it just really annoys me when people say "Oh, thats so gay", but not as in a gay person, as in like a stupid thing.
Like if their phone isn't working they'll say "God my phone is so gay". That bothers me, because its like saying gay=stupid.

I'm not really sure…
I can understand domination I guess, like to the point of thinking its kinda kinky when someone totally takes control during sex and makes you their bitch, but on the other hand i don't enjoy actual physical pain, which for some reason seems to always be present in those movies. Plus i think all those weird things they wear and artificial shit is just a turn off.

I live in portland oregon,
but i was born in Huston, TX

I agree with the guy who said you took it a bit too far.
It doesn't make a difference if gay people get grossed out by straight sex, the same way it doesn't make a difference if straight people are grossed out by gay sex. Just because we wouldn't do it doesn't mean we aren't ok with it. I have a ton of straight friends who have no problem with me being gay, but flinch if i ever mention any aspect of sex with another guy. Seriously, chill.

I'm guessing he just said that so you feel more comfortable around him or whatever, I mean if he has a girlfriend I don't think he'd be interested. Unless he's the cheating type.