@andergarcia toilet paper.

mobile games or PC games

I got error code 521, am i the only one? :cry2:
also new torrent is 7 hours ago. is the site down?

I speak English, Chinese only mandarin. and i am learning Suomi (LOL….)

find some other things to do, to distract yourself of thinking like this… talk with friend.. even get drunk..LOL.. no matter what you do , just keep yourself busy and happy.. :cheers:

@RainbowCloud:

I'm an average looking guy : 6 foot, 190 pounds, thick glasses (I was born with cataracts in both eyes), too much body hair.  I accept it as it is.  Yet I see people much worse off looking than me, not only with boyfriends, but quite good looking boyfriends.  I just don't get it.

I have heard all the stories at this point.  People say "you have to go out".  I go out and nothing happens.  The other set of people tell me "Stop looking".  I try putting it in the back of my mind, yet still nothing happens.  And the list goes on and on.  I would be interested in knowing what all these other average guys have that I don't.  I know no one on here can actually answer that question, but it really is part of the frustration.  At the very least I am not dumb.  I might be stuck working in retail now, but I have a college degree and more, I work on creative projects, etc.

One thing I believe that is holding me back is I am on a physical and mental level only attracted to much younger guys.  So when people say just to live life and let things happen, I am never in social situations with younger crowds of people, because as you get older those opportunities go away.  Plus lets face it, guys in their early 20s don't have much interest in guys in their early 30s.

At this point hook ups are on option.  I would feel like crap about doing it, but I would do it.  I'm not really getting any takers on that either.

hey my friend..we are all average people unless we are super rich or genius.. you saw the happy couple in the life, but do you know what their stories is, before they get together maybe they suffered quite a lot of being apart or some other problems…
i know, it is easier to talk here than work by ourselves.. but since we haven't tried, how do we know what it comes... as for when it can come, that is really a huge problem to everyone..because we cannot predict the future.
i like white people who are elder then me, like in their 50s.. and most of the people that i like are about thousands of miles far away....i think it worth of waiting and taking some actions.. no matter when where and how it comes.

Hi the unknown friend, first of all, i want to say  :hbirth: to you. hope you will have a nice birthday :ecake:

i was very sad when i saw this topic, because it looks so negative. But we should say, is there anyone who cannot be alone when he dies? physically, everyone dies alone.

It must be a very tough moment now, which you are suffering. you are not the only in the world, buddy. i had the same feeling when it was my 28th birthday, i thought there is no one who really loves me and spends the whole life with. and another thing that brothering me is that i am not openly gay, i know quite a lot of gay friends on the internet, but had never talked about it in my personal life. for those days, i stayed inside my room and had no feeling to anything but being depressed.

cheer up, please! One friend told me, "we cannot love a person who does not like himself." i think it makes sense. no matter we are alone or in a relationship, we do not want to become a burden to anyone else, nevertheless, there are quite a lot of things making us feel happy.

about online dating, there are quite a lot of people who are looking for sex only, but there are also a lot of people who wants some differences. i think you are just not that lucky to meet thoes people. why not to give yourself another chance. but firstly, like other people said, you should be confident by yourself. no complain any more.. it is your own life and only you can make some differences to it.

:bighug:make some wishes during your birthday. who knows what will happen next..LOL..

try to find some fun for yourself… talks cannot last for a long time... :cheesy2:
only you can cheer you up.. :cheers:

I think it depends on the person you found on the website, there are always some guys who are really looking for serious relationship and i think it might be a good start to know them…

i heard about the Grindr but not the first one.. i have PlanetRomeo on my phone. :cheesy2:

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