I'm so happy right now.

Hi everyone,

I'm really sorry it took me so long to respond to you. I forgot I posted this. Well first, the infection is gone. My doctor said it was the deoderant I was using. I guess I'm allergic to anti-perspiration and I can't use certain body washes or soaps. I felt blessed that it wasn't anything more serious than an infection. It took about two weeks to clear up. Secondly, I think my Mom does know I mean I'm 24 and have never been out with a girl what does that tell you. Third, nothing else really happened after that conversation with my Dad. You see he's  lost a couple of family members in the past months  from cancer and he's busy getting himself checked out  so we really haven't discussed anything about my sexuality but when the time comes will talk about it again. He's been having the blues lately which is totally understandable. I just hope things get better for him. He really is a great dad. Thank you all once again for all the responses and sorry it took me so long to respond.

All the best, men4life

Hell Yeah!

I was kind of late in getting it. I was 23.

I wonder what he's looking at?

OMG I didn't realise I spelled it wrong. Sorry about that guys.

Hey Everybody,

I want to tell you guys something that I did not plan on happening today. I was talking with my Dad about some stuff today and I mentioned something about getting these bumps in my pubic area and under my arms. I said I was going to the doctor next week to get it checked out and asked him if he ever had that same problem. He said yeah, then he said it's probably an infection.  He asked me have I had sex with anyone and I said no. Which is true by the way and I asked if you could ever get it from receiving oral sex and he said no. He then asked If I have been having oral sex with women and men I said no but that surprised me as he would asked me that part about having sex with men. He said  he needed to know in case so he would be able to tell me what I could  do. I still said no and I would honestly tell him if I had  but I asked him if he ever messed around with a dude he said no because he said messing around with a dude could give you aids and other stuff which I knew better than to believe because true you can get aids from men  but also you could get it from women just as well if you two aren't safe.  I don't Know I just got this vibe from him even though we had this conversation over the phone that he wouldn't have a huge problem if I said I will eventually  start having sex with guys . He said that if something happens with me no matter what to let him know. I maybe having this conversation with him again and  I hope it's in person and I'll make sure to tell him that he could tell me if  he fooled around with a dude and It would be just between us. I'm  pretty much an open minded person. What do you guys think of this situation? I just felt great because I feel that maybe I could talk to my Dad about anything. I also have to talk to him about the whole getting aid s from guys thing because he obviously has an old school way of thinking.In the middle of the conversation he also said that he better not catch me doing anything with a dude but not in a way that  was not to serious  but like in a concern way and than he said that If I need to talk to him about anything that I could. I'm also wondering about him saying that me messing would dudes would cause me to get aids. If I said something that would get him thinking  like gay sex is safe as long as both guys know  how to play safely and that heterosexual couples are just as much in danger of contracting a dangerous deases as homosexual couples if they don't play safe.

Do you guys no what he meant by that?

:laugh: Wow! I totally forgot about posting this. Thanks guys for responding.

loverinme

What's up?

I'm from Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

What's up everybody,

I am so excited. I just got my driver's license Monday and I couldn't wait to tell you all. I was so nervous. I made sure I studied really hard for it. The test had 40 questions and your allowed to miss 8 and that's exactly how much I missed. The next part was the on the road driving test. I did well but the only parts I messed up on were going below the speed limit and missing a pedestrian sign. Other then that I passed with an 83% out of 100%.  I'm so happy right now!

Thanks for reading,
loverinme