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    Condom or Bareback?

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      • F Offline
        fitbiguy
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        Bareback, I only fuck guys that im in a relationship with, condoms just ruin the mood.
        On the other hand, if its a one night stand and we do fuck, he has to wear a condom!  😉

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        • andergarciaA Offline
          andergarcia
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          And if he doesn't wear a condom, what happens?  ;D

          @fitbiguy:

          Bareback, I only fuck guys that im in a relationship with, condoms just ruin the mood.
          On the other hand, if its a one night stand and we do fuck, he has to wear a condom!  😉

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            indybr05
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            condom all the way

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            • andergarciaA Offline
              andergarcia
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              Even with your partner, if you have a stable partner?

              @indybr05:

              condom all the way

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              • GrotomodeG Offline
                Grotomode
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                Bareback definitely.

                At the very least always bare when in a relationship. It is just sooooo much better.
                I hate to pause to wear a condom.

                Also I can not believe I am seeing comments comparing HIV to a death sentence. Sure, you should avoid it, but this comparison has no place in 2020. Truly sad.

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                  utf16
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                  I don’t put my raw dick to anyone’s butthole and I don’t touch someone else’s raw dick that has just been pulled out of my ass. I understand that many people have some sort of sexual fetish, but this one is just ridiculous.

                  Some time ago, I actually dumped my boyfriend and one of the reasons was that he refused to take a shower before sex and wash his teeth. And this is way less siginficant than putting a dick to a smelly hole.

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                  • GrotomodeG Offline
                    Grotomode
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                    If the hole is smelly, then it will be smelly with a condom too.

                    That means the guy has not prepared or was not ready to begin with.

                    By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so; you should want the hole to not be smelly regardless.

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                      utf16
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                      @Grotomode:

                      By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so

                      Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                      I understand that sexual tastes are individual and unexplainable. But what’s so weird to want a sexual experience in hygienic conditions?

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                        lamelight
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                        @utf16:

                        Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                        This is exactly why I have always refused to have sex without a condom, even when in a relationship. The thought of putting in my mouth something that was being rubbed against my intestines - or kissing someone who put in his mouth something that was inside his - just feels…gross? No matter how intimate I am with the other person.

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                          fun17
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                          @lamelight:

                          @utf16:

                          Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                          This is exactly why I have always refused to have sex without a condom, even when in a relationship. The thought of putting in my mouth something that was being rubbed against my intestines - or kissing someone who put in his mouth something that was inside his - just feels…gross? No matter how intimate I am with the other person.

                          Second!  ;D

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                          • GrotomodeG Offline
                            Grotomode
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                            @utf16:

                            @Grotomode:

                            By all means, avoid bareback, but that is a weird reason to do so

                            Most people would never consider putting into their mouth something that just came out of someone’s bottom, no matter how clean the bottom was supposed to be.

                            I understand that sexual tastes are individual and unexplainable. But what’s so weird to want a sexual experience in hygienic conditions?

                            You know you dont have to put it in your mouth after it has been in someone's ass right?

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                              trader42
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                              @gayaznboi22:

                              Which do you prefer?  I like bareback because of the thought that everything is skin-on-skin when I'm being fucked.  That there's no need to wonder if the condom broke or slipped off; it's just a means to continue a good fuck.

                              While I prefer bareback, I use condoms with one-night stands and guys I meet online.  The only exception is if the guy has a recent test of being clean that they can show; I guarantee very few guys are willing to show or have such evidence.  As of now, I only bareback with my fuck bud.

                              I agree with this post. Skin on skin is much hotter for the top and the bottom, and, like it or not, substantial numbers of gay men enjoy the quasi-reproductive feeling of receiving or depositing semen.

                              Instead of preferring bareback but using condoms for one night stands, my policy is to take daily prep at all times and basically only have one night stands with guys who are also on daily prep, thus being able to make love bareback. This means I have fewer one night stands, but they're generally much hotter, and with negligible risk.

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                              • GrotomodeG Offline
                                Grotomode
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                                Or hook ups with HIV+ men who take their medication.

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                                  trader42
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                                  @Grotomode:

                                  Or hook ups with HIV+ men who take their medication.

                                  That's a very good point. Undetectable is generally regarded as untransmissible.

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                                    Headstrong19
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                                    I do both depends if I'm with the guy or just hook up

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                                      snowboarder9
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                                      definitely bareback if I know he's on prep otherwise I'm cautious

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                                        yoop
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                                        Bareback. I'm Positive / Undetectable. So...bareback. I love Bareback 😄

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                                          bi4smooth
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                                          I freely admit to preferring BAREBACK sex - indeed, I prefer it in the WORST WAY: cumming INSIDE!

                                          I'm on PrEP myself, and I prefer having sex with men who are also HIV- and on PrEP or who are POZ-Undetectable (if you're on HIV drugs, I'm more comfortable fucking and being fucked bare!)

                                          To me, the risky ones are the HIV- ones who have bare sex based on the "self-reporting" of the other guy(s)...

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                                            yoop @bi4smooth
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                                            @bi4smooth said in Condom or Bareback?:

                                            I freely admit to preferring BAREBACK sex - indeed, I prefer it in the WORST WAY: cumming INSIDE!
                                            I'm on PrEP myself, and I prefer having sex with men who are also HIV- and on PrEP or who are POZ-Undetectable (if you're on HIV drugs, I'm more comfortable fucking and being fucked bare!)
                                            To me, the risky ones are the HIV- ones who have bare sex based on the "self-reporting" of the other guy(s)...

                                            🍑🍆💦💦💦

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                                            • seaguy11S Offline
                                              seaguy11
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                                              Bareback feels better. Once you go bareback, it is hard to go back to condoms.

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