Make Hay While The Sun Shine and Become a Dirty Old Man
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The truth is that matured men are less desirable.
Now that I've just passed the dreaded 60yo since last year, I could feel it. My FB just reminded me by complaining that I'm getting loose down there. Another fb simply stopped calling few years ago. I started facing age discrimination when looking for sex.Last year while I was cruising for sex, I met someone a little older than me and he bluntly reminded me to make Hay While the sun shine. Do what it takes to get sex, you only have a few years left of shelf life. Now at his age he gets unfriendly looks and smack on his hand just for reaching out.
Well, he don't need to remind me, I said already knew that. Yes but am I willing to become a Dirty old man? How dirty? He pulled down my pants and parted my legs, fingered me while jacking my cock. One young guy slowed down while passing by. Old Man whispered to me, "go for it". With my pants in hand, I followed the young man behind some bushes and was thoroughly screwed till the bushes were rustling that attracted a few eyes.
Old man caught up with me after the act. We became casual chat buddies. He said the difference is that last time I was passive and subtle but now I literally chase after a guy with bare butts and pants in hand. I said that last time I was not really coy but then I thought guys wouldn't like me to be too direct. But now there's this unspoken expectation that old men are supposed to be freely available for sex anytime, anywhere since we're considered lucky to even get fucked. So he said I have to openly expose myself if necessary, like what he did to me just now.
Since then I've been going to the saunas regularly, whereas previously I have a few fbs that satisfy me enough. Now only one FB is still regular. Now I've no shame chasing after men. I don't mind having sex with someone my age or older but then, they can't fuck. We usually just do mutual jo or he oral me. I'll let him finger me openly to attract attention. Interested top would only take over from there since I'm ready with my legs wide open.
Am I having old age crisis? Is it taboo to even talk about old age amongst gays? It's dreaded and we want to avoid the subject.
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It is true that our choices are less when we grow older and older. I don't blame others for not being attracted to me, since I am not attracted to all guys anyway. I keep looking for people who are genuinly attracted to me and don't think that they are doing me a favour even if that means that i will be sexless for a while
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It is true that our choices are less when we grow older and older. I don't blame others for not being attracted to me, since I am not attracted to all guys anyway. I keep looking for people who are genuinly attracted to me and don't think that they are doing me a favour even if that means that i will be sexless for a while
"even if that means that i will be sexless for a while"
That's what my friend was saying, as we get older we don't have much time of for a while left, so better make Hay While the sun shine. Sex is sex, if the other party is not too unacceptable.Though I'm well maintained for my age, soon age will still catch up with my looks.
Now the most obvious age sign is that I'm taking a long time to get fully erect and lose that erection quickly so the pleasures that I get from my cock are greatly diminished. However, my ass and nipples are more sensitive. So I'm getting most of my pleasures from bottoming. It's obvious that my testosterone level is so low that I'll feeling lethargic towards sex. I started to appreciate virile and aggressive men and feeling their virility fucking me aggressively makes me feel younger and wanted. It's like I'm clinging on to their virility.It's like some old guys looking for young meat to feel young.
My equivalence is to feel a virile cock pounding into me and bringing me pleasures that I'm not able to get in my own.Most old gays I met shy away from talking about age.
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If you're a daddy in decent shape, I would say there are plenty of twinks who would love to feel a daddy meat inside their tight rosebud.
There's also testosterone pills and exercise that can help you maintain your virility.
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The way you describe it, sex sound like a compulsion or even onerous, I don't like it. I don't need to have sex just to have sex, only to compensate for future days.
If there is genuine attraction by both parties then everything is cool, have fun and enjoy it without constrains
I am 35, and I am quite overweight… there is a proportianiolity regarding older men and oversized men
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The way you describe it, sex sound like a compulsion or even onerous, I don't like it. I don't need to have sex just to have sex, only to compensate for future days.
If there is genuine attraction by both parties then everything is cool, have fun and enjoy it without constrains
I am 35, and I am quite overweight… there is a proportianiolity regarding older men and oversized men
I don't like it either. But age and biology waits for no men.
I'm shy to say that my libido is obviously going down.Now I only need sex once a week. The worse part is that it takes a long time for me to get hard. I feel the need to release in my balls yet I don't have the same sexual strength in my cock. Sometimes porn and sex toys helped, sometimes they don't and I felt unfinished even though I managed to cum.
It's like when some people complain that they feel like they've peed but still feel unfinished.
I had to do what I normally won't like to do. There's a known cruising park many miles away and is known for truck drivers rest and recreation. Fortunately for me, I'm still in good shape and don't show my age yet. It didn't take long before I hooked up with one. To feel his virility was a pleasure and he drained me well that made my balls ache after.
I used to say that I'm versatile. But now I'm not good enough to top. The fact that he could fuck the hell out of me, now I'm resigned to be a bottom. I'm not risking my health by taking Viagra.
What I'm afraid is that sex is too easy if you're willing to put out. These truck drivers are raunchy and in need of quick release. I hate to be addicted to easy sex.
I tried not to think about it. Every few weeks that incomplete feelings in my balls just too bothering my daily life. For that I had to drive 1 hour to get relief.I tried the apps but in small town, there are few and they're mostly regulars. Sad to say, I hooked up with one and he wanted me to be the top. I tried but even after his oral to help me get hard, I was not hard enough to penetrate and got soft. That ended with silent embarrassment.
It was even more embarrassment when he bumped into me at the cruising park. I was stark naked with a truck driver in a secluded spot. Apparently, it is a favorite spot for consummation for its seclusion. It's a small world after all.
