Shower before sex or after ?.
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Most of the times I shower after having sex, or shower while having sex
I rarely have a shower before having sex. -
Definitely both
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I personally shower after sex; don't want to walk around with lube and cum stains on me. I don't usually shower before sex unless the guy tells me to when I'm at their place.
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Not at all. I take both before and after too.
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I think it's best to shower before and after sex. That way you get yourself clean and you can invite your partner to a nice hot shower sex.
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I'll shower before if I've gone a lot of hours after the previous time.
After sex for sure, usually just below the waist. If you can call that a shower.
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I'll shower before if I've gone a lot of hours after the previous time.
After sex for sure, usually just below the waist. If you can call that a shower.
A good practice!
:love:
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both! well, depends really on how clean i feel down there, and after it depends how dirty we got!
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Showering before and after is being presented as the maximal option here. But how about:
1. Each partner briefly showers.
2. Share a bath together in a beautiful outsized copper bathtub, with a bottle of champagne, slowly getting used to each others' intimacy.
3. Go to the bedroom to have sex once it feels right.
4. Shower again, washing each other tenderly.
5. Take advantage of one's newly clean state to put on fresh pyjamas and laze around together. -
I always do both just a rinse after to get the lube off
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I like it when men smell
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Taking a bath is a good idea if one is going to be rimming..
After sex, a shower is probably sufficient, although it would be nice to cuddle in the bath after the sex.
I know a guy from high school... who lives down the block from me.. 5 minute walk. I have not chatted with him in quite a few years, but I remember chatting with him when he didn't know who he was chatting with online. His basic thing is that he would fuck anything that moves - male or female - and in regards to females... he would typically invite them into his home, fuck them, then kick them out and laugh about it! What a douche! He got married to a woman - so his life is pretty much over now.
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Sometimes before but definitely after
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It depends.
If I'm pretty clean, then I'll skip the pre-shower.
Always shower after.
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It kind of depends on the "state of things" after... if we were particularly "frisky", built up a sweat, and have bodily fluids all over the place, a shower after is necessary. If the only bodily fluids around are a few stray drops of cum - and it's pre-sleep sex, then maybe not.... I like falling asleep after sex (without a shower), and I don't mind waking up with a little dried cum on my chest - or elsewhere LOL.
Likewise, shower before sex also depends on other things... but if its evening, and I haven't showered since morning (or the night before), then yeah - I gotta get rid of the "stink" before I get going... I do NOT like the smell of my own body odor! (Of course, if I'm going to bottom, there has GOT to be a cleanse ahead of time... and for me, that means a shower).
What I find annoying though are guys (usually younger ones) who seem to have learned all about sex from porn videos... they cum and they jump up and head for the showers! Like in less than 30-seconds! No! An orgasm is not the hard & fast END to love-making, it's just the beginning of the end! Stick around and enjoy the "afterglow" of good sex!
Unless there is someone else there hollering "end scene", the orgasm is NOT the end of sex!
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@trader42 said in Shower before sex or after ?.:
Showering before and after is being presented as the maximal option here. But how about:
1. Each partner briefly showers.
2. Share a bath together in a beautiful outsized copper bathtub, with a bottle of champagne, slowly getting used to each others' intimacy.
3. Go to the bedroom to have sex once it feels right.
4. Shower again, washing each other tenderly.
5. Take advantage of one's newly clean state to put on fresh pyjamas and laze around together.Is this the Red Shoe Diaries?
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Showering after is a good way of not getting infected with certain skin-disease viruses.
Showering before is a matter of good manners.
Still, I adore making guys suck my dick in the car directly after training, when I'm most horny (and sweaty
) They seem to love it too tho -
Disney now has gay couples in their ads for Disney owned housing communities.
I am waiting for a "Shower To Shower" powder commercial where a guy says "Honey, have you seen the Shower To Shower?" and his boyfriend steps out of the shower in a big towel with plastic shower cap on and says "Here it is SILLY!"
Then they go off to the bedroom for rimming AFTER the shower.
