I have no idea how to deal with my mom
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it appears me being gay crushed her dreams, she cant even say the word gay. I'm so frustrated with her! how did you handle fussy parents?
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Help them to get therapy and learn to get emotional independence. IMHO
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Of course they dream about their grandchildren and the moment they're crying on your wedding, etc. but it's necessary to explain that it's won't be their lives' finish: it's just another chapter.
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Parents are crazy. Especially mom's. But they love us after all. She will be confused. Throw religion into it. My mom did all the above. Didn't talk to me for a year. But after a while came around and realized I was still her son and nada has changed . I just like men.
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it appears me being gay crushed her dreams, she cant even say the word gay. I'm so frustrated with her! how did you handle fussy parents?
Don't take it personally. This is her issue, hopefully with time she will understand that she should love you for all your similarities and differences. This isn't your fault. I hope that things got better for you.
