Would you date someone with an … UNUSUAL job?
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Specifically. Imagine a situation:
The guy basically works at the office. But there are some weekends when he's hired by another guy(s).
The task is simple: The client is a dog. It sounds funny to me, so I don't want to offense anyone cause probably some of you guys here like BDSM and stuff like this, so again, no offense, but I am like 'wtf is this shit'. The guy walks out the dog. They don't use a bathroom… Well for the second thing maybe, but if it's about peeing. Lol the dog pees only under trees or outside of the room. The guy always pees into the dog's mouth. And that's all he drinks. If they go to the town to get a dinner that's the only time they work as "friends". Except from that he's a slave dog and he eats from a bowl, he gets punishments like getting beaten with a belt or something and he swears at him and does stuff like this. That's all I know. I presume they don't sleep together and they don't have sex. What's your stance for a guy like this in terms of your relationship with him?Does it bother you? If the guy would be perfect (no wonder why he gets so many offers) would you accept it? If the guy was worth it would you let him? Or would you like him even more because of that? Would you be jealous or would you just consider it as work as (or if) he does? Would you be okay to share your boyfriend with someone ? Or would you make him quit ? Would money be in the discussion if he's paid a lot and you're broke and you both really need it (they can pay 3k for a weekend) ?
So many questions ;D But we need answers. Please discuss.
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yes
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no
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xD
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I mean yeah if he's paid why not? 3k is a bit more than I was expecting but i'll take it.
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I don't know. You think it is really healthy to be in relationship when one of the guys is spending weekends with someone different pissing to their mouth ? I'm not so sure actually.
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hahaha exiting. I would be curious to see how that guy behaves in bed with a partner.! :cheesy2:
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Let's get real here. If you think there is no sex involved you need to get your head examined. Come on guy, I understand financial needs but he is nothing but a paid sex slave/dog/whatever. Trust me there is more going on than you think.
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Well it's not actually my case. I mean, it WAS.
I just sometimes get and idea for the topic and create it to hear what you guys think of the things I got on my head. It doesn't always include me in the situation.
But yeah, if it was me I wouldn't be up for it. Anyway the guy & I didn't click, I didn't really know what I was thinking about him, there was sure something I liked cause he was really big and I like big guys, but his head was such a mess. The more I knew him the more I disliked him. In the end it turned out he was just playing. He 1) started the whole relation with me by asking if I have a boyfriend 2) he told me he wants to meet me but he doesn't want to meet with a guy who's not single 3) he texted me good morning and good night everyday 4) he texted me "ugh… guess you don't like me that much cause you text so rarely" 5) he wanted to meet for a moment just to see "if I'm his type or not" 6) he actually got super spontaneous and offered me a meeting a day earlier cause he wants to spend time with me. And then after the meeting when I said it doesn't make sense (us, meeting) he said that we can still meet if I come to his city (he promised he will visit mine - so notice the change in the behavior), and I was like "what for?" and he said "the same as earlier", me like "MEANING?" he replied "spend time, talk" and was really fucking pissed off at that moment so I asked me if he can stop being such a fucking dickhead and answer directly and he said that "he never wanted to meet me in terms of relationship, cause I'm not the guy he would love anyway. he just wanted a colleague". LOL. that's totally what he said, judge for yourself looking at the situations above that I pointed out. So that was for me. I know the guy was actually sacrificing and visiting him from far away and they dated or smth and the other guy showed up with money and he said to that guy that "he will meet with that guy for half an year, gather some money and they will be together" and the guys was like "are you fucking kidding?" and he left. That was actually so cool of that guy. He thought he's gonna forgive him but he didn't. So the dickhead drove to his city just to talk to guy for 15 minutes but the guys totally dumped him
That actually satisfies me so much 
But what about you guys ? I don't need advices anymore on this topic but I'm wondering what would you do? If the guys was really really your type, would you act differently? Imagine your husband in that situation or smth.
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If it were me, the piggy inside me would want to inquire about maybe joining him in his little weekend adventures.
That's just me though. I also understand that there are different strokes for different folks.
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… Aaaaaand would you be the dog or the master? lol
