Why do we like doing blowjob?
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Sorry to ask this stupid question, I live with my partner for 10years, we both hate blowjob, but in some movie show, people love this action even in the toilet.
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I'm one of the people who love blowjobs (both giving and receiving). But I cannot explain why, I just enjoy it, that's all ::)
In your and your partner's case, just do whatever floats your boat. You don't have to be like others, you just have to be yourselves -
because dicks are yumm
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Good question! It's maybe part of the larger issue of why in sex some people sometimes are more interested in their partner's orgasm than their own. In porn,
it's often a matter of getting someone warmed up so they are slick and hard and ready to fuck. Or so that they feel they are not being neglected and that their partner cares about them and thus can be trusted to do the fucking now that the bottom knows he is cared for.Same like men eating a woman not just to get her lubed and relaxed but from the satisfaction he takes in providing climaxes due to his oral skills. I've often pondered why I personally like doing one thing or another that is not an obvious part of the pleasure of experiencing MY orgasm.
You might equally ask why some people consider anal sex the only "real" man-to-man sex act and others have a major thing about seeing, touching, smelling, and tasting dicks, swallowing the dick, using refined skills and experience to make it explode with what one rock band called Ten CCs and another identified as a "Lovin' Spoonful." Etc. (Randy young whippersnappers with their filthy minds and ever-loaded balls!) Don't we all like to think of ourselves as highly skilled lovers?
It's one thing when some stud pounds his pole in either hole with lust-driven power, and something else when exquisitely calculated actions memorably edge, and irresistibly milk out the fresh, hot juice. Which role is preferred, pitcher or catcher, and who performs most of the action are variants that are not much discussed in an old-fashioned "compare and contrast" essay sort of way.
I still find it even more baffling that some enthusiastic cocksuckers routinely spit out the man milk they've worked to hard to drain. I saw that in action well before the plague and any thought of STDs as a life/death issue. In contrast, there are men who are eager to slurp semen from used rubbers. There are worse things than a cum fetish and I can understand why women might not share it, but for gay men to object…. Baffling.
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This may sound weird, but I prefer giving it rather than receiving. Receiving feels so weird and it makes me heavily uncomfortable for some reason when I first tried it. My current partner doesn't like giving it, but he loves receiving, in contrast to me who likes giving but doesn't really like receiving.
Reason for this is because… I just like seeing him squirm and writhe in pleasure while I'm doing that ;D
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Because I love the taste and texture of cock and the feeling I get when the cock slides down my throat and makes me gasp for air.