Is being "gay" worth it?
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It's worth just about as much as you make it worth. Same as everything else. The amount of attention you invest in this one particular aspect of your life should ultimately have one goal, and that is for fulfillment. It isn't your whole identity, obviously, but it is a part of what makes you an individual. It's not worth it to dismiss any one part of your identity, just as it's equally unhealthy to spend too much of your time on it too the point it may begin to affect any other part of your life. Happiness is achieved through balance. Deciding on a path in either extremes will ultimately lead to regret. If the goal is to achieve fulfillment in life, then my best advice is to continuously evaluate your options as you live your life, not before your options and choices in life begin to present themselves. Ultimately, you can't live a life beyond the opportunities that come your way or the ones you make for yourself. But so long as you decide to make choices that are true to who you are, you will ultimately find fulfillment. I don't know of anyone personally who has ever achieved happiness by living their lives by ignoring their own values.
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my dear, the principle of the forum is the following, the OP ask a question, then people try to help him.. talking about your own experience like you did is irrelevant, so you also should probably start your own thread :laugh:
WOW, so any idiots on this forum. :spam: