Sharing some private details about my love life.
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hello everyone i've decided a week ago since i'm getting really active on this beautiful website to at least post one topic per day. anyways i wont take long to go into the subject that ive been facing for the last couple of years i've been in a beautiful relationship with a guy obviously but the matter is that our relationship were little bit unstable. always on and off i know that there is some great sexual desire between me and him through the years we used to have sex though we weren't together but what's bad or to be specific what made me feel sad yesterday that its been like a long time ago since we had sex and it happened a month ago… so yesterday we were chatting so ive made a joke that we should meet and watch a movie together so he answered surprisingly no!!!! so i asked why he said cause its not appropriate because of what happened last time we've met (that we had sex) we should not be alone so i asked him why is it a bad thing? he said its wrong because of the past and history we have its not good. though i remember after we had sex a month ago he asked me if its possible for us to be friends with benefits and i refused cause i don't see him as a friend. so the matter is... is it fine or okay for me to be upset or do you think im being over dramatic and emotional about the whole thing?????? my problem is that i'm loyal and i don't like to change a lot when i get use to someone i like to stay and stick with him cause this is healthy for me as a gay guy not to go and whore around. its better to stick to one!!!! please guys share your thoughts and advises
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Just ask him if he wants to be more than just friends. If he says no, leave him alone.
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Just ask him if he wants to be more than just friends. If he says no, leave him alone.
thanks man i will do so to be honest. but i'm not being dramatic or a child about this right??? i should never neglect or disrespect the way i feel right?
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No, don't worry. Situations like this happen to everyone and you're not being silly about it.
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No, don't worry. Situations like this happen to everyone and you're not being silly about it.
thanks a lot deflorare, really appreciate it :)))