Fisting

paulflying

can you accpet that your partner likes to try fisting and you don't?

Aleedinver

Till it's his ass… wveryone is different... not all are versatile and do top and bottom, so not all bottom like big things in their ass and some want to try a mammoth cock... I don't like things in my ass, so for me even if I'll start a relation with a boy that want these things he can do what he want, just he should not expect I do the same...

tranxuan

No no no no hell no
I'm a bottom but I will never try that thing. I don't want to spend the rest of my life in restroom because I can't control the "pooping work".
If he want to try fisting, try it with his own hole.

MeatHook

@tranxuan:

No no no no hell no
I'm a bottom but I will never try that thing. I don't want to spend the rest of my life in restroom because I can't control the "pooping work".
If he want to try fisting, try it with his own hole.

This sort of things is based in gossip, rumour and self-hating rhetoric. I've heard exactly the same thing said of guys who like to get fucked and of course, it's not true in their case either.

Perpetuating scare stories like this really is offensive.

I've been training guys to take a fist for over 35 years and none of them have lost control of their holes and are fully continent. The oldest guy I ever fisted was certainly in his 70s and possibly in his 80s. He'd been taking fists since he was a teenager so at least for a half century! He was as tight as a drum until it was time to open.

I hear a lot of arguments that go along the lines of "But taking something that big must make you loose. Training a hole properly involves teaching a guy both to relax, and to strengthen the hole. That leaves a guy with a hole that he can control and which is strong and tight.

Let's get away from bashing others in our community for the kind of sex they enjoy. There are no shortage of those outside who will do plenty of that already.

tranxuan

@MeatHook:

@tranxuan:

No no no no hell no
I'm a bottom but I will never try that thing. I don't want to spend the rest of my life in restroom because I can't control the "pooping work".
If he want to try fisting, try it with his own hole.

This sort of things is based in gossip, rumour and self-hating rhetoric. I've heard exactly the same thing said of guys who like to get fucked and of course, it's not true in their case either.

Perpetuating scare stories like this really is offensive.

I've been training guys to take a fist for over 35 years and none of them have lost control of their holes and are fully continent. The oldest guy I ever fisted was certainly in his 70s and possibly in his 80s. He'd been taking fists since he was a teenager so at least for a half century! He was as tight as a drum until it was time to open.

I hear a lot of arguments that go along the lines of "But taking something that big must make you loose. Training a hole properly involves teaching a guy both to relax, and to strengthen the hole. That leaves a guy with a hole that he can control and which is strong and tight.

Let's get away from bashing others in our community for the kind of sex they enjoy. There are no shortage of those outside who will do plenty of that already.

Hello Meathook
Thank you for giving me a story about your true experiences. When I watched a video involve in with fisting, I always saw lots of comments about problem you would face with so I started to think it's the truth. Beside, I'm a bottom so I know the painful feeling when I had cock in my hole, that's why I really scared of fisting.
I am sorry for posting that comment without thinking about how other members could feel when they read it. I did not try to bash you guys from the beginning, it's just because I am so thoughtless and stupid with this topic.
I am sorry.

Sekator

Fisting with partner that loves me, if both wish to do it, why not?

landerkay

I couldn't do it

kumagiri

I have been there. About 5 years ago, my boyfriend was a hardcore porn actor, fister, BBcker and BDSM. He was a true master, where his work lead us to travel to conventions in Europe, fisting parties, BB parties, and everything.
It was a great experience, at least for me back them. It really opened my mind about fetishism and sex boundaries. It even changed my mind about fisting - I had the opportunity to fist some guys - and it was a real life worth experience about erotism

Still, I never let him fist me, bareback me or anything like it. And, as much as he wanted it (he voiced it more than once) he never moved to do anything I was feeling comfortable with. We broke apart mostly because routine than having bed problems (we still fuck sometimes when we meet).

If you have any doubts in your relationship because of this, I say this is just a small part of the whole that makes your boyfriend be the person you've chosen to call boyfriend. Good luck

musclem1

I'd love to try getting fisted again.. Super intense sexual experience.. doesnt make you loose either. That IS BS.

TheNewt

I've never been fisted or even bottomed; but I am curious about fisting a woman or man; but I am content with watching it in porn and reading about it since I have never had a woman or man as a partner or who I was with who wanted to do it. I do not like to see a "rosebud" either.