Did you choose to be gay?
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No. Many people believe that being gay must be a choice, but that’s usually because they’re confusing “gay feelings” with “homosexual behavior.” The two are not the same.
Being gay just means that someone is attracted to his or her own sex. Most of us would not have chosen to feel this way, and many of us tried very hard to become “straight” (attracted to the opposite sex). But even straight people can’t choose whom they find attractive. You can’t force yourself to become attracted to someone who isn’t attractive to you, and you can’t force yourself to think someone is unattractive when you are actually attracted to them. (Believe us, we’ve tried!)
However, any of us can choose how we wish to behave. If a gay person chooses to be sexually abstinent, or to go on a date, or to try to change their feelings through prayer, or any other behavior, that is a choice. Being gay is not a choice, but the way we respond to our gay feelings is always up to us.
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I don't think that could be conveyed any better or more concise. Thank you for sharing.
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baby I was born this way
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Not a choice. But if it were, I'd chose to be bi.
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I would definatly choose to be straight
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I honestly do not know what to answer here.
Probably it choose me. -
Sometimes I wish I was straight because there's so much more out there for straight people. Relationships, porn, etc. But atlas, I'm not that and I accept it. Besides, it's fun and I wouldn't change my sexuality even if I could.
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If that's any comfort to you… There are time i wish i was born as a woman.
I got over it though and i learned to love my choices.
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If one can choose to be gay than one must be able to choose to be straight.
Sleeping with the same sex doesn't make you gay, being in love with the same sex doesn't make you gay. Finding the same sex attractive in an erotic/sexual way and not the opposite sex attractive in an sexual way is what makes you gay.
A man can sleep with every man he bumps into that doesn't mean he is gay.
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A year ago, I didn't think I would be bi. I had experimented with solo masturbation videos but I realised that I was actually really attracted to bears. I had really thought I was straight but I had never really been around the type of men I was attracted to. This made me really confused and I thought really hard about whether I was always bi the whole time. I've accepted that I really must have been bi the whole time although it feels a bit weird. I guess it shouldn't be as weird as me realising I like vegemite without having tried it for most of your life.
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I often wish I was a woman, cuz it seems so nice to have a dick in ur pussy.
And it's way easier getting laid, if you just go for it.
As a gay I have to search, and there are not so many gay musclebears, there are just more straights.
Buuuut, it's so much fun being gay, I feel so special. I definitly did not chose it but am extremly happy I am
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I did not choose to be gay.. I think I was born this way
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It is common sense that it is a natural thing rather being a ''choice''.
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I can remember always being attracted to guys.
I never made a "choice", it just was.
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Hell nah.
Silk Stockings-era Rob Estes confirmed it though :cool2: -
In my case, it was him that confirmed it.
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I didn't "choose" to be gay and if given a chance, I wouldn't change a thing.
I like the way I am, flaws and all. -
I didn't "choose" to be gay and if given a chance, I wouldn't change a thing.
I like the way I am, flaws and all.:mbounce: :mb2:
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EPIC FAIL!
This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat! -
EPIC FAIL!
This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!True that. But you can ofcourse chose to belong in a culture. But then you are just pretending. Although that does not need to be right or wrong, it's just you wanting to try a lifestyle. But in the end instinctually you are not gay.
