I want to suck my straight friend's dick
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Anyone here ever had an experience like this? Where you're friends with benefits, but your friend is straight and you just give them head from time to time.
I'd like to bring up the topic to him and just say "if you ever need a bj.. I'll be willing," could that be a friendship ruiner?
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the angel by my right says:
do you think there is a slight possibility that he accepts? (NO); whats more important, your lust or your friendship? dont confuse a physical attraction to any other thing, is not good to have a crush on a straight guy, specially a friend of yours, there plenty of (gay) fish in the sea.the devil on my left side says: >:D if you still want to suck your friend, bring that issue like a joke or like a dare, or in a conversation about the things he would like to do but a girl wouldnt agree, then tell him you are willing to do those things, or get him wasted drunk and suck him, since he wont remember anything tell him that he asked you to do it and enjoyed it, or tie him up the bed in front of a mirror and force him to watch as you suck him dry >:D
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I have had some luck with this… but it's really awkward after.
My mate and I were a bit drunk and he started talking about what it would be like etc.
He ended up fucking me which was a bit further than I planned so be careful what you wish for!
We are still mates, but it's a bit strained. . . -
It's been said, but … be very, VERY careful. You might not even necessarily like the true end results after a so-called "success." There are guys out there that might be uninhibited enough while inebriated to allow something like this to happen, but there's always the morning after, when the reality of what they've done becomes more immediate. Some may go into a kind of crisis mode. Even if you manage to suck that dick once, it could still mean the end of your friendship.
Here's what I suspect the truth is: sexual identity is as much about perceptions of social ideas, roles, and the fear of stigma as it is about desire.
For most 'straight' men, they aren't even close to as LITERALLY disgusted by the idea of a little sexual interaction with another man as they might claim (a little too loudly) while making 'fag jokes' with a bunch of straight friends at a bar. I think that what really keeps them from ever trying anything with another guy, at least for some, is that they fear "what it would mean" about them. They wouldn't want anyone to find out, and they would even be afraid of the validity of their own identity and self-perception if they let something like that happen.
But, in their heart of hearts, they're not NAUSEATED by the idea. Maybe there's even one or two male friends they have, even a gay one, who they've gotten to trust and feel comfortable enough that they could even see themselves enjoying getting a blowjob from (having someone like you enough to literally WANT you to put your dick in their mouth is an ego booster for all men, and straight men get a lot less of it than we do, sadly -- it's a turn-on for them to be worshiped). This is especially true if all they have to do is assume a brief, no-pressure, no-expectation sexual role that borders on nothing more than assisted masturbation --blowjobs or handjobs. As long as they aren't the ones servicing another dick, it's easier on their perception of their masculinity. For some reason.
So, maybe you could get lucky, if your friend is someone like this, just teetering on the precipice of almost-curiosity ... and he trusts you and likes you enough that you could maybe just barely tip him over the edge enough to give it a try. Let's assume all of that is true -- it's STILL pretty risky. What will it be like between you two after that? Let's say he doesn't freak out after his excitement is gone with the cum in your mouth that first time, and it even might become a somewhat regular thing ... wouldn't it still be awkward in the in-between moments? Wouldn't it change things? Could you honestly tell yourself that YOU wouldn't start to feel more attached (I know I would), if you have both an emotional and sexual connection with him all of a sudden?
Consider the variables before trying anything, that's the only advice I can give. I also have a few friends that have had some positive, regular experiences with "straight" buddies. These are the sorts of friends that can control themselves enough not to fall in love, though, LOL.
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Honestly…some friendships aren't as strong as others.
I think you would actually be better off doing this if you weren't close friends...doing it with a shitty fairweather friend is one thing...fucking up a true friendship is another.
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In some point yes, if you tell him those words will eventually lead to freezing of your friendship because somehow he did not expect to hear those words to a friend like you but in some point if your friend is an open minded person well definitely he will understand you but as an advice before you tell him those words let him know first your real identity.
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You have to know how close your friendship is and what kind of person this friend is. Some people can handle things better than others. Also you have to remember that society has brainwashed a lot of guys into thinking what is acceptable
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If he knows you are gay and has never given any hint that he is interested, then don't try it. Straight men always assume you are interested. If he ever seems flirty when drinking and puts himself in a situation with you where it might happen, that's a different matter.
Do consider all the possible scenarios ahead of time. What if he enjoys it and you don't and then he comes back for more? I actually had that happen to me once with a classmate.
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My advice would be don't do it unless you're absolutely sure your friendship will survive.
I was real close to my best friend in high school and we wound up doing stuff one night, which I never saw coming. I won't bore you with the story but suffice to say, it got awkward after it happened and it wound up destroying our friendship. Within a year or two later, I was completely out of his life (partially due to his getting married with a girl that was friends with us both and I have always suspected she found out what we did and wanted him to stop talking to me).
To this day, I regret doing it. Sure, it was fun for that night, but it really did cost me my best friend. It doesn't always turn out bad, but IMHO it wasn't worth the risk.
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god i wish my straight friends were comfortable enough to let me blow them
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god i wish my straight friends were comfortable enough to let me blow them
Me too…...
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I started sucking off my best straight bud about 6 mos ago. We do it all the time now. He dropped a hint a few times so i went with it. It is incredible!! He got on my computer one day and started watching porn. He said "hey can you help me out? I was on my knees and he came fast. The next time he came over, i had the computer screen on the same place he was before (i bookmarked it). He said do you mind if i get on your computer? This time it took a lot longer and it was hot! He was shocked at how much i was into it. "damn you really perved out on my cock he said" Now we do it every time he comes over. I LOVE IT.
The trick is not to take it to far. I don't even take out my cock. You have to make sure he knows you are "just helping out a bud". He is not interested in seeing your cock. It is not awkward at all, and if anything we are closer.
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Let's flip this with a hypothetical. Let's say you're GAY :far: and you have a straight female friend who knows you're gay, but either A.) hits on you and let's you know she wants to give you a bj or B.) encourages you to get drunk to give you a bj anyway. How would you feel about the friendship afterwards?
If you're bicurious or bisexual, then "A" may not be a problem, but how would "B" feel?
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Now that this is mentioned, there is this a friend of mine, whom I'm curious about. But he's straight. He's kinda cute, but there is this naughty thought that I'd like to give him a blowjob… But I don't know how to properly give a good one and he's straight. I can't possibly do that... but this slutty thing keeps lingering on my head
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Question: all these straight friends know you're gay? Because I think that even the most stupid straight friend can "understand" that his gay friend may find him attractive… then, at this point, the only thing is "will let me do it?"... just ask, maybe not suddenly... let him fully understand that you are attracted and that you don't seek for his love, but only to satisfy him... probably he has to think he's in charge, that if you blow him that not make him gay, etc... to last if he's not sure try challenge him (I'm so good I will suck you better than every woman you tried...).
However I suggest you to follow the others... try only if you are sure your friendship is strong enough... these things can change your relationship drastically... it can go well but it can also go very bad... maybe in that moment he can enjoy, but regret after...
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I have had some luck with this… but it's really awkward after.
My mate and I were a bit drunk and he started talking about what it would be like etc.
He ended up fucking me which was a bit further than I planned so be careful what you wish for!
We are still mates, but it's a bit strained. . .Sounds like you regret you did it. But he fucked you and that´s something most gay guys wish they could do with their straight friend at least once (I wish that a lot especially with my one straight friend). It would absolutely be worth the awkward moments after but not worth to lose a friend (though he is not my best friend by any means).
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And thanks guys for all the advice. This forum is definitely a great source for this stuff. Never before did I hear honest or educated opinions about whatever issues. God bless you all! :crazy2:
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man, this already happended to me. You have to know how much liberal he is , even straight guys accept benefits from gay guys when they are pretty sure about their sexuality. For example from the other side, I´m gay but i sometimes like to play with my female friends, that doesn´t change the fact that I´m atracted to men but, you know, a mouth is mouth
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I'd rather not take the risk tho
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the angel by my right says:
do you think there is a slight possibility that he accepts? (NO); whats more important, your lust or your friendship? dont confuse a physical attraction to any other thing, is not good to have a crush on a straight guy, specially a friend of yours, there plenty of (gay) fish in the sea.the devil on my left side says: >:D if you still want to suck your friend, bring that issue like a joke or like a dare, or in a conversation about the things he would like to do but a girl wouldnt agree, then tell him you are willing to do those things, or get him wasted drunk and suck him, since he wont remember anything tell him that he asked you to do it and enjoyed it, or tie him up the bed in front of a mirror and force him to watch as you suck him dry >:D
That was hot
