Has sex gotten too….
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Hey everyone!
Remember when sex was something very special? And you were fantasizing about so many things in your mind; only to be super excited when yo actually saw a guy naked or you had sex with someone? And remember how, now, you can find millions of naked men on your computer, look at anything you want to, and can find sex within 5 minutes on Grindr? Groupsex, gloryholes, parties.. everything you want is basically here… And t's gotten SO normal that I feel like open relationships or acceptance of cheating have become the norm...
Lately I feel that, maybe the easiness of this all has ruined a lot... I think I tried most sexual things by now. The only thing I hadn't tried yet was anal sex...Until this year.. I decided I wanted to try that..so I did.... quite a number of times... And now.. the list of 'things that excite me / things that I want to try" is basically completed. I thought I was 'gaining' experiences... but.. now I feel like I 'lost' something... it's a strange sensation...It's a bit of a personal rant perhaps.. but I would like to hear others' opinions/
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So it sounds like you are ready for the next step then, find someone to love. Sex by itself can be great, but sex with someone you love.. I think you will find you haven't exactly conquered every mountain
Sex without passion is just fun, add the passion and it is reinvented without doing a thing.As for monogamy, I think the idea of it fly's in the face of nature. Each couple has to define what is really important to each other. My man and I met because we were both such utter sluts lol. We were a "hookup" turned "fuck buddies" turned "best friends" turned "Man hunting team". I was adamantly opposed to ever being in a relationship, could not conceive there was a man out there who could meet my needs. This one snuck up on me, it was such a gradual thing - I never even saw it coming. I had been a professional "runaway boyfriend", anyone looked at me like they were going to leave a toothbrush - we were done. But this one.. well, long story short, never say never.
We are not the slut dogs we once were, but when someone strikes our fancy we do still love to play. For us, our version of monogamy is at the end of the night, it is he and I. Personally I think people with strict monogamous standards are setting themselves up for failure. That is just my opinion, and that goes for ANY couple, Gay, Straight, Bi, Tri - fuckin Unicorns I don't care.
So try love.. even if it fails it will always leave you feeling alive.
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For me sex is still something special. I love to turn my husband on with sexy lingerie and do anything to pleas him
