Boner Killer When Watching Porn
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No matter how hard I tried, I can't get hard when watching performers wearing colored nail polish.
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I hate the hyper-masculine chest punching and roaring during sex.
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I don't think it's a matter of trying. You might recognize that this shouldn't be much of a deal, but it's easier to just close the video than go to therapy or begin a self-knowledge journey.
Personally I think the issue with this particular matter is that it takes something from you without giving you something in return. Take for example cross-dressers or femboys. They strip off of their masculinity as a mean to either empower or subjugate their partner. It is a very effective way of setting/communicating the power dynamics.
The nail polish thing is the same but on a micro scale, it communicates some important message but not as objectively as the femboy, for instance. Instead it leaves the message to be interpreted by you.
Is it a sign that you shouldn't expect any masculinity whatsoever? Or that maybe they are non-binary? Or a sign that he's naive enough to think a man with painted nails is outrageously transgressive? Or he just thinks it looks pretty and won't restrain himself from doing it because of other people's opinions?
You can't tell. You'll either end up assuming something by yourself (and it might end up being something that kills your boner), or you'll have to be forever conscious enough to never assume anything, in this case good luck trying to enjoy porn being conscious.
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@ianfontinell
No, there is a porn that I really like the performer when I saw him the first time, in fact I ask his name here in the forum and when I got the answer, I searched for his other video and I got 2 others, but when I saw him in one hot scene and notice him sporting a colored nail polish, I immediately deleted it. I don't mind his pierce earrings and pierce nipples and even the nose ring but the nail polish distracted me.His name is Lucas Frankreich
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Lmao I figured, this post came too quickly after the guy's answer
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Welp, what else could I say... I don't like it either. I might have a couple of vids of guys with nail polish. I usually turn the blind eye when there is something else that really stands out positively to balance things.
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@ianfontinell said in Boner Killer When Watching Porn:
Welp, what else could I say... I don't like it either. I might have a couple of vids of guys with nail polish. I usually turn the blind eye when there is something else that really stands out positively to balance things.
I should have edit my post to this, that I don't like the guy I like wearing a nail polish lol, now if his partner is sporting one which I don't care about, then I could ignore it and would not have deleted that vid from my file.
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@kalayaan For me, it's the sight of condoms in porn. For some reason, it's just a boner killer for me. I wanna feel a hard cock, not some piece of rubber/latex.
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@MrMazda said in Boner Killer When Watching Porn:
@kalayaan For me, it's the sight of condoms in porn. For some reason, it's just a boner killer for me. I wanna feel a hard cock, not some piece of rubber/latex.
Throughout the past years I have become so anti-condom even I am surprised with myself. I literally can no longer watch any of the scenes from the 2000s/2010s which I grew up with and had some of my favorite actors of all time.
I remember even as recently as 5-6 years ago the industry still was so torn about condoms, some still were clinging to the idea that bareback scenes are irresponsible and that only shady studios do it and that AIDS victims roll in their graves or something everytime we enjoy a bb scene. Thank god for medical progress.
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I very rarely download porn with condoms in, and it would need to be a damn good film for it to stay on my drive.
As for boner killers, obviously everyone has a particular type of guy that they like or dislike. What I've found is that there are quite a few performers out there who, despite matching up with what I'd tell someone I find attractive, instantly make me delete that film forever. I can't quite put my finger on whether or not it's their acting ability or what, but seeing them on screen can totally destroy a good wank.
I'm thinking of actors like Denis Reed, Michael del Ray, Johnny Rapid... Even Joey Mills, who I quite liked in his time at Helix, but always seems to be phoning it in now at MEN. When I see any of them (or a number of others) I just know there's going to be no chemistry, no passion, just someone going through the motions to get a paycheck. I know that most porn is done for money, but if you're going to earn a living that way then try to make it more believable than your local amateur dramatics company attempting to perform Hamlet.
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@frostycab I double that! Super accurate, there are guys that even though I still find them attractive, they still manage to kill my boner. This is what led me to understand that there's way more to attractiveness in porn than just looks. Two examples are Austin Wolf and Tim Kruger, both of whom I have paid homage a lot in the past. With Tim I just started to feel like he's not even there in the scene, he just looks like he's worried about something else like "Did I lock the door this morning?". As for Austin, maybe from watching too much of his "amateur" content it started to feel like you're having memory issues because all the videos look the same.
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@frostycab said in Boner Killer When Watching Porn:
...but always seems to be phoning it in now at MEN. .... no chemistry, no passion, just someone going through the motions to get a paycheck.....
I think it's more the studio/director thing than actors/models. For example, MEN is more like silly slapstick type of productions that kids may enjoy in cartoons like Tom & Jerry but a very poor attempt. It's faking all the way, even the cum.
Next Door seems to have a free musician, who plays loudly and not at all complementary to the scene. The magic word is "STEP". It must be repeated often enough with stress on it, then sex is permitted.
I do prefer bareback to condom but I find that modern porn seems less interesting to me than 80s/90s/2000s. At least then models appeared to be interested in doing what they were doing, not overly inked/pierced, and could convincingly roleplay/act. Falcon, Cadinot, Clair etc. have vintage but good quality bareback actions too.
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crooked toes
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ass hair crack is a big turn off for me. It LOOKS like klingons are attacking even if they are not.
permed hair turns me off, and I don't know why. I don't mind curly hair, I don't mind wavy hair, but when I see permed hair that looks like a cheap toupee, it turns me off.
balding heads turn me off
yellow teeth
bony asses
protruding rectums
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whenever someone is in pain, or being humiliated. A light spanking is nice, but to beat someone's ass until it is beet red is bad.
If someone is not enjoying what is going on, it is a big turnoff.
If someone WANTS to be submissive and given orders and commands, that is fine. Nobody should be forced to do something.
