"Straight" men and anal sex
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Given the choice of GAY, BI, STRAIGHT (G,B,S), how would you describe the following behaviors of men?
- love to take a dildo up the ass
- have women fuck them with a dildo or strap-on
- have a trans with huge tits fuck them up the ass
- fuck a trans
Frankly, masturbation could be called a homosexual act. I wonder how many straight men never masturbate?
What percentage of "straight" men take fingers, dildos, or other things up their ass?
Then there is the topic of sodomy.
Is heterosexual sex outside of marriage sodomy?
Is heterosexual sex which employs contraceptives, sodomy? -
These questions go away if one is careful with vocabulary. "Gay, bi, & straight," as colloquial terms for "homosexual, bisexual, & heterosexual," refer to what people a person is generally attracted to. These terms are generalised categories that don't fully describe the variety of sexual attraction.
The four behaviours you mention are that--behaviours, or activities. They may bring pleasure and/or revulsion, but they are things people do. Psychologically "straight" men can experience pleasure when their prostate is stimulated by a dildo, a strap-on, or a penis in their rectum (as we find in lots of "gay" porn). Having said that, many such men can have a socially-conditioned dislike of those activities. (Putting this in colloquial language, a guy can enjoy getting fucked in the ass regardless of whether he's gay or straight.) Similarly, psychologically "gay" men can experience pleasure when their penis is stimulated inside a vagina.
As for "sodomy:" This is a legal term, but there is no crisp definition. The traditional definition in law is "unnatural sexual connection." This has been fine-tuned a bit in recent decades to "oral or anal copulation between humans, especially those of the same sex." (Note that this definition would cover oral sex between a married male-female couple. People are often surprised at this.) In the US, sodomy (however it is defined) cannot be prosecuted if performed by consenting adults in private. (See Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558 (2003])
Is heterosexual sex outside of marriage sodomy?
Is heterosexual sex which employs contraceptives, sodomy?If one considers these activities to be "unnatural," then they would be sodomy. Few prosecutors would follow that path.
(It is worth noting that extra-marital sexual activity is not criminalised in Europe or Canada, but is a felony is some US states. It is rarely prosecuted.)
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I was friends with this married straight couple but I stopped being invited to events because I mentioned I thought it was pretty gay when the wife mentioned she used a dildo on her husband. She went on about there being a gspot...but still though.
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Men can enjoy a finger or anything else up their ass and still prefer to kiss, date, marry, or otherwise have sex with a biological or 'trans' female.
I was close friends with a dyke in college and she was surprised that I got hard when she tried to make out with me at a straight bar (and yes we were very happily drunk at the time as well) we just to go because the happy hour was fun, and it was cheap, and the bar was within a walk near our apartment. I told her I thought I was young and easily turned on. That's the closest I ever got to anything with any kind of female and I have no desire to even come within ten feet of that today. I'm sure I could do a porn video with a woman but I would probably have to be very broke and have no other options before I would agree to do that and just like some shitty G4P models that make it clear it's all about the cash, that would be my expression as well, and it would be meaningless to try to say I was straight or bi-curious if I was forced economically to perform in a straight video with a woman, or if I was capable of doing so - since the fact is I have no interest or desire to do so.
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@semurg30 I think the problem here is that couple is in denial. While its fine that the woman is using a dildo on her husband... they can't portray themselves as being "straight" when they are into an activity like that. They need to get over themselves.