Exhibitionists?
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There are young guys... who post erotic nudes.. even cum shots and jack off videos. Not for monetary gain. Why do you suppose they do that?
- Narcissistic - love showing off their stuff
- Showing off thinking they are impressing girls
- Showing off to impress other guys
- OTHER reasons.
There is a young guy who keeps sending me very erotic and even kinky images and short videos of himself.. and I am trying to figure out why he would do this other than he might actually like me. Surely it can't be THAT!
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@lololulu19
I tend to meet older bears so it won't directly answer your question, but I do know a few exhibitionists. I like to ask people a lot of questions to know how they think.
The most commonality I found was body insecurity. It was either society, family, or both that criticized them for their appearance. Their mindset shifts to "oh somebody likes the way I look, finally" and it turns them on and gets them off.
The second most common reason was showing traits of narcissistic behavior. You mentioned it yourself, and you are right. One guy I talked to gave a great example of being fucked in a bathhouse in the public area. He was turned on by the fact people were watching him, and the top was fucking him only and nobody else. He would feel admiration because people were watching him. -
@orhaqi123 I think you nailed it. I know a guy who was quite insecure about his looks. He started working out, and the results were amazing. He was not sure if he really looked good, but was admiring himself. I reinforced his ego with detailed comments about how great he looked - not just bullshit. He greatly appreciated that, and has told me so a few times.
Many guys who are into fitness and looking good tend to be gay or bi.. probably because females are not as stimulated visually as men are. When something looks good, men notice much more than women do. That is probably why the overwhelming majority of painters are male.