Been barebacking too long
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I have bb sex pretty much exclusively and now whenever I try condom sex it doesn't stay hard at all. I just don't feel very much at all no matter how hot the guy I'm with is. What should I do?
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@pasha Get tested. Get on PREP. Get a condom that fits. Put lube inside the condom.
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@realstik said in Been barebacking too long:
@pasha Get tested. Get on PREP. Get a condom that fits. Put lube inside the condom.
All excellent suggestions:
- Get PrEP to protect against HIV infection... as a positive side effect, you'll visit your Dr once every 3-6 months and get std and other blood tests to help make sure you remain healthy!
- Try to have sex with other guys who ALSO take sexual health seriously - either on PrEP, on HIV meds (e.g. Poz-Undetectable), or who are otherwise aware of, and manage the risks of human sexuality (which is nothing new - sex has been "risky" since the beginning of time!)
- Use condoms when you can - and lubricate yourself BEFORE your put on the condom (as well as after) - this increases the sensations exponentially and should eliminate the "dull" sensations you're experiencing now
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@pasha Do you have access to recreational hard-on pills? Or, you can discuss this with your Doctor. Condom use can be a sort of mind over matter but the hard-on pills will help you wrap up - especially in a dark room.
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Do you watch a lot of porn? Maybe decrease your viewing time?
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you should always practice safe sex, especially when you have many partners!
try a thin condom. Don't just expose yourself to risk like that!! you should take care more of yourself!! -
"Been Barebacking Too Long" sounds like the title of a gay Country Music song!
