Bareback
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Do you like bareback? Doesn't care about risks with HIV?
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bareback is the greatest thing ever of course : both ways active or passive.
Now what's the "doesnt care about hiv risks"…??!! flash news little kid there is a thing called hiv test... if you do fuck with regular friends or just your mate, you know for sure (Im talking about a real friend here that you know for years that his not a dumb gay bitch) he does test and/or do not screw around without condoms when he/they doesnt know the serology of a random fuck ( like when you do fuck strangers in sauna/backroom/grindr and such, of course you don't do bareback unless you are suicidal or you already are contaminated). Some people are educated you know.. -
Yes, I like bareback. Yes, I'm concerned about HIV. I won't likely known if my boyfriend will fuck someone else unprotected because to be frank, when you're horny it's your dick thinking for you and get laid unprotected. It all up to you TRUSTING. Check for signs. Have you and your partner tested.
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Yes, I like bareback but I only do it with my partner of 7 years.
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I love it and only do it with my partner of 13 years.
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Yes! I only bareback with my husband. If another man fucks me, he must use rubber, because of std and i/we only want my husband would breed me
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I only Bareback with my Husband, we have been together nearly 12 years, when we play with other guys we use condoms.
Bareback is awesome, but not worth the risk.
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Never bareback. Always use condoms.
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Only at the beginning of our relationship my husband used condom when he fucked me. Not since then. We've been together about 23 years. As soon as we knew we had no disease, we do not use condoms. To feel his cum fill me is to feel he give him self to me and give me his love.
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I find when wearing a condom it just doesn't feel the same - no matter how thin the dom - I prefer natural raw bareback sex whether giving or taking. I'm concerned about HIV and other STDs but I don't just sleep with anyone I meet - I have to get to know them first
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Condoms first. If I'm in a steady relationship bare all the way
I would still get checked maybe once a year even if I'm in a steady relationship because it's healthy to do so. (and to find out if he's cheating on me) :afr2: :cry2:
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hmmm tough question…. a random never see each other again then def not bareback but a regular FB then definitely prefer BB as with everything there is risks.... even playing it safe there is risks admit not as many but still some form of risk.
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I love bareback but I only do it with my partner.
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I bareback exclusively… I'm not particularly worried about HIV though because hey..... you can only catch it once, right? :hehe:
Just a heads up to the people who have expressed that they are concerned with the risk of contracting HIV. It's a scientifically proven fact that having unprotected sex to completion (as a top or bottom) with a partner who is HIV+ and maintains an undetectable viral load is actually safer than engaging in any penetrative sexual activity with a partner who is HIV+ and has a high viral load, even with a condom. Believe it or not, there has yet to be so much as one confirmed case of an HIV+ individual with an undetectable viral load ever passing the virus onto another partner, despite the number of studies that have been done to attempt to quantify the risk.
So... Keep in mind that the vast majority of persons who are HIV+ are on the meds and as such, effectively maintain an undetectable viral load... Don't get me wrong though, I'm not trying to pressure anyone into anything by making this point. I believe in a person's right to choose what is right for them, and that in doing so, they should have the right to make that decision while properly armed with all the pertinent facts. All that I'm saying here is that the fear and stigma behind HIV at this day and age is pretty much unfounded. Unlike 1986 when the problem was at its all time worst, HIV is no longer something that needs to be feared. In fact, thanks to the advances in medicine in particular, the general risk of contraction at this day and age is nowhere near what it used to be back in the day. This is largely due to the fact that the majority of cases now a days within North America in particular are cases where they're on the meds and undetectable..... This is part of the reason why I bareback.
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I'm not particularly worried about HIV though because hey….. you can only catch it once, right? :hehe:
Not exactly… you can catch a different subtype of virus (reinfection) and risk yourself to a mutation that might make your medication less effective - in the most extreme cases leading for a change in medication, though there are a limited number of medications for HIV, so the more your virus mutates the less chance of an effective treatment you have.
It's a sad thing... but the safest thing to do is, alas, sticking to safe-sex if you want to whore around or find a fixed partner/boyfriend/etc. or a small group of people to have unprotected sex with. -
Definitely prefer a condomless experience. Unfortunately trust is a problem initially so condom-only in the beginning. I met up with a guy at a local hotel once. We both required condoms. We had a good time and spent more time together than either planned. He started getting hot, I was out of condoms but he wanted me in him. I had only the slightest temptation but told him we would have to save it for another day. Though I am sure we both felt both were ok, it was just a risk I wasn't going to take. Trust and testing.
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I'm not particularly worried about HIV though because hey….. you can only catch it once, right? :hehe:
Not exactly… you can catch a different subtype of virus (reinfection) and risk yourself to a mutation that might make your medication less effective - in the most extreme cases leading for a change in medication, though there are a limited number of medications for HIV, so the more your virus mutates the less chance of an effective treatment you have.
True in theory, except there's a small flaw to the theory that science is proving. Many more recent studies have been done to attempt to derive a calculated risk for contraction of HIV, specifically focusing on gay sex. The interesting thing is that every study came up empty handed when it came to unprotected sex with a partner who is HIV+ with an undetectable viral load. The interesting thing is that the vast majority of people who are HIV+ within North America are on the meds, and because of the more modern meds, maintain an undetectable viral load. So… The general risk of contraction in general is lower regardless of whether you're dealing with one HIV+ and one HIV- partner or two HIV+ partners....
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Personally, I am not sure if bottoms would enjoy it as much as tops do because I experienced both and I didn't feel much difference when I was barebacked accidentally.
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Bareback is the only way to fuck.
On another note, there is no 100% safe sex. If you want to be 100% safe, then stop having sex.
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only with trustworthy partner
