Who was the first to know about your sexuality?
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Coming out is a very difficult choice so I'd want to know, who was the first to know about your sexuality (excluding your partner).
Sincere answers, please ::) -
My Family
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I was. I played many sports growing up. I played my part well.
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- the person i had sex with: i was 18, he was 29… some random man i found on irc chat
other than gay people i told only to my mother
- the person i had sex with: i was 18, he was 29… some random man i found on irc chat
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my brother I loved, he is the only one living person who knows my sexual orientation. I also tell my father at his funeral. I don’t have gay friends here, but my brother have two gay friends two doctors, but they don’t know me.
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No one..there is no rule that you should really come out as gay out and out
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No one..there is no rule that you should really come out as gay out and out
I agree with you assuming that the reason you may choose not to come out is purely & truly because you could care less if people knew.
That aside, I think the first person to know was a girl-friend I had in middle school, 6th grade I think.
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My (straight) female friend was the first to know, back in 8th grade. Though, I told her that I was bisexual because I was in denial. 'Told her that it was a 60% to 40% ratio (boys to girls) and then I eventually came out to her and a few other female friends as gay.
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My female friends here as well
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I was basically forced to come out to my mom because I needed her to take me to my HIV appts… It was really rough , then she made me tell my dad - but they eventually just accepted me for who i am
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A female friend. At first I told her as a joke to see her reaction. But found out she is cool. she rather enjoyed listening to my gay life when I came out to her. ;D ;D
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First I started opening a anonymous account on Twitter. There I made a lots of friends who understood me. I'm from a little town in Andalusia (Spain) so the option of comming out so young was out of question. In the university I also made friends who know I'm gay, people on university are more open-minded (still there was some assholes, but only a few). The only person I have came out is my best friend (and after a few weeks he came out on me telling me he was bi LOL).
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The first time I said it to someone (besides myself) was to a female coworker with whom I've had sex a few times. We were getting closer and when things started to get into romance I felt like I should just tell her that I'm more interested in man than in woman. I was very afraid of her reaction but I had nobody else with intimacy enough to tell this. She took it kinda of well, was supportive and didn't tell anyone about it (that I know of), but we got distant and I could see a bit of dissapointment in her. Life moved on anyway and I felt relieved to have told it to someone.
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Well first my parents , family, then later friends .
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a classmate I was in love with
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it depends on the person. if the person really feels he had to tell someone to relieve something then go for it
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A couple of girl friends in high school.
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Besides the guy I was dating at the time, my boss and coworkers.
I got a job at a gay business.
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a good friend after that my family
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its always the family
