What is it about?
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I have a question:
What is it about with guys ? .. like really.
Okay, a little introduction. I have a good body. I work out I'm stil way from where I want to be but I'm getting such decent opinions. Face pretty okay too. I get a lot of attention on Scruff. Like I just logged in later in the day and I had 50 woofs. I was talked to by really hot guys sometimes even a porn star or a small insta celeb. Guys with lots of popularity say I look great and am such an intelligent person.
So now we move to the grindr app in Poland…
Wow, fuck. There aren't many guys I like. But if I do... we talk a little and we set a meeting. And they never come.
They just stop replying. I'm like - when do we meet and where and thye just disappear. Sometimes delete account. Sometimes don't reply. Another guy was supposed to visit me on weekend from another city and he said "i'm lazy, hmmm maybe you'll visit me", nobody makes an effort. They say people want sex, but even if I was up for sex or a hookup - still, the guys just stop replying and they don't come. So what do they wat ? What is it about ? -
People tend to be flaky on online dating apps, the same thing happened to me plenty of times. The part with people flaking out. But hey.. That's OK. Life goes on :D. Keep your chin up! :cool2: :hug:
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What you described has and is happening to a lot of men. Many men have a tendancy to play games and play with the emotions of others.
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I have a question:
What is it about with guys ? .. like really.
Okay, a little introduction. I have a good body. I work out I'm stil way from where I want to be but I'm getting such decent opinions. Face pretty okay too. I get a lot of attention on Scruff. Like I just logged in later in the day and I had 50 woofs. I was talked to by really hot guys sometimes even a porn star or a small insta celeb. Guys with lots of popularity say I look great and am such an intelligent person.
So now we move to the grindr app in Poland…
Wow, fuck. There aren't many guys I like. But if I do... we talk a little and we set a meeting. And they never come.
They just stop replying. I'm like - when do we meet and where and thye just disappear. Sometimes delete account. Sometimes don't reply. Another guy was supposed to visit me on weekend from another city and he said "i'm lazy, hmmm maybe you'll visit me", nobody makes an effort. They say people want sex, but even if I was up for sex or a hookup - still, the guys just stop replying and they don't come. So what do they wat ? What is it about ?I wish you better luck this year!!
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Don't let it get to you. It's just part of the entire world of those hookup apps.
And that is what most guys want them for. Just a quick hookup and that's it.
The straight versions of those apps are the same way.
They are not dating apps. They are straight up "I want to fuck now" apps. Not for just meeting people.I can't even name one friend who has made a real friend on one of those apps.
Just be careful. Lots of hate groups usee those apps to lure people into a bad situation.
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Do you knw anythig about such cases?
Tanks for replying : ) -
Its not just you or gay. Its all those apps are just ugh!!!!
You cna't convey everything about yourself with a picture or a description.
Try making a video and putting it up. That can convey much more of who you are. Seems to work for lots of girls. -
Gay guys are quite flakey. I wouldn't read too much into it. Nothing to do with you.
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just because you think you look good that any person out there from any country would be drooling over you
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I notice this shit as well. I think it's crazy they play with your emotions and waste your time like that.
I was talking to this one guy who lived nearby me, (and mind you, he was the one that messaged me first) and asked if I would like to get a drink sometime.
I said yes, and to cut the bullshit agreed to go out for a drink that following Friday evening at a gay friendly venue in town.
He later replied and said he would love to, be he's swamped with work (so why did he did ask if I wanted to grab a drink then? lol)
So I said okay, rain check. He woudln't give me an answer back, I think he blocked me.
I was talking to another guy that contacted me. We were sending lots of messages back and forth for a couple days, and I up front asked if he wanted to go out for lunch one weekend.
He replied and said that would be great. (Mind you, he picked out this place.) He messaged me a place to meet up at.
So I arrive there, and the asshole never shows up.
I later find out he blocked me on the dating site.
So yeah. Lots of gay men do this. Why I don't know. But it's getting on my nerves.
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just because you think you look good that any person out there from any country would be drooling over you
Two words.
Reading comprehension.
I notice this shit as well. I think it's crazy they play with your emotions and waste your time like that.
I was talking to this one guy who lived nearby me, (and mind you, he was the one that messaged me first) and asked if I would like to get a drink sometime.
I said yes, and to cut the bullshit agreed to go out for a drink that following Friday evening at a gay friendly venue in town.
He later replied and said he would love to, be he's swamped with work (so why did he did ask if I wanted to grab a drink then? lol)
So I said okay, rain check. He woudln't give me an answer back, I think he blocked me.
I was talking to another guy that contacted me. We were sending lots of messages back and forth for a couple days, and I up front asked if he wanted to go out for lunch one weekend.
He replied and said that would be great. (Mind you, he picked out this place.) He messaged me a place to meet up at.
So I arrive there, and the asshole never shows up.
I later find out he blocked me on the dating site.
So yeah. Lots of gay men do this. Why I don't know. But it's getting on my nerves.
That's exactly what I'm talking about.
Like fuck.
Why do these people start a conversation or agree on meeting if they don't even intend to.
Mental illness?
