Is it gay to cuddle with another dude?
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A few month ago I told my a friend I'm in love with him. Strange thing is we became best friends after that. We share everything and the other night we cuddled. Is this weird?
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no but you should ask him if he loves you back cause it may confuse either or both of you.
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It depends but as @Chrisunder said he might be confused.
Perhaps you should talk, just to clear things up.But generally speaking cuddling with another man isn't gay!!
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I don't think so. Cuddling is an afectionate way of showing love, it usually involves a relationship with the other person, since i don't think people would just cuddle with a complete stranger for no reason, unless it's in a cuddle party.
The wisest thing to do is to talk, as people has said before, anyway, I'm happy for you have a guy friend who didn't reject you for being who you are.
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Extremely gay.
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He is not confused, he need some cuddle :hug:, some affections, he feels alone, and empty, and maybe he is going through a situation that he needed that kind of tenderness. Cuddle him all you can. Enjoy your time. I love to be cuddle :hug: to, who don't. :cheers:
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Nope. It can be or it might be totally not. Both gays and heterosexuals are bad about slapping labels, so just ask him if it's that way, if you want, or let it be if you are both content.
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Are you sure he knows you meant you are in love LOVE with him, and not just "hey, I love ya dude" kind of love?
The best thing to do is not ask us, just ask him. Just say "I love you" to him again, and see what he says.
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Gay or European?
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Oh been down this road a few times. It Never makes sense and usually ends weird :afr:. Yeah it's gay but that's not an issue. Knowing where you stand with him might be. If you're neurotic like me and you have to know how he feels about you, cuddling can mean nothing or it could mean everything. It makes things more confusing since cuddling is supposed to be a sign of affection but not anymore. Same with sex. Either way have fun and don't get hurt.
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No in my opinion. It's only gay if there is romantic feelings involved. I don't really consider a cuddle/hug romantic. That's just me.
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I would say normally no, but in this case I would talk with your friend. He was different before you declared your love, but he didn't declare anything.
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In my opinion, NOPE.
When it evolves into a cuddle with sparks of romantic and sexual innuendo, THAT's when it can be categorized as gay. But in both ways, it's just an expression of love.
It all depends on how the other guy is responding though. If your best friend is completely all right with it, then don't make too much of a big deal about it. It's entirely different if he's looking annoyed with it. The best thing to do, is to just be frank and ask his opinion about it. After all, that's what best friends do, right?
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I've seen straight guys, straight girls cuddling all the time,
not a problem, I do get confused when straight guys wants bromance I don't know how much is bromance and where the gay part starts lol
I guess its clear to them, but somebody told me " as long as they're not convinced its gay, then they'll do anything " lol so
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Its gay only if your gay.
My best friend when I was a young adult was 100% straight but we had such a close bond and had gone through so much together that he used to like being close to me when watching TV or hanging out on the couch. He would always make a point of having his arm around me and at times would rub the back of my head as we watched TV etc. I loved the intimacy and I am quite certain he did too but in a completely different way.
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There was an article I read about new youths and athletes being open for hugging, cuddling and sleeping together but I forget what country.
What's a cuddle party?!? I want that!!!
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Not at all weird - but, thankfully, it IS gay. :hehe:
