As a bottom is it better to ride the guy first?
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So my question is maybe it is better as a bottom at least, to start off riding a guy initially especially in my situation where the guy has a large penis and you haven't done in a while?
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"better" is subjective. everyone is different and it depends on your own personal preferences. but yeah, if you haven't done it in a while sometimes it's better to hop on that way you're in control of the action and you can stop when/if it gets uncomfortable.
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My ex was hung as fuck and I was exclusively a bottom only for him.
What we basically did was:
1. I always initiated anal sex, he never pushed it so it gave me the comfort of me being in control and putting it in myself
2. I was always starting by sitting on top of him with him laying on his back, so I could devour him more and more with my tempo
3. When I settled in and was able to eat his whole gigantic dick then he started to do the fucking and could sit back and enjoy it
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It is better when you and your top are not experienced or not really intimate with each other, so as a bottom I feel more at ease having some initial control. When a top knows his bottom well, though, and cares about him, it doesn't really matter.
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For me it was easier on my side at first, it meant i was relaxed and comfortable before and during then entry phase. Then after that, I find riding was good to to be in control.
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Everyone is different. Personally, missionary is my favorite position as a top and bottom.
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Starting out on top gives you more control of the initial entry and allows you to loosen up, after a few strokes I find I'm ready and can be in any position the old bod allows ;D
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If it is a real long and/or extra thick cock it is easier to start out riding it. Once I have taken it all in than anyway the top likes is fine. For average hung it doesn't make much if a difference
