Boyfriend afraid of anal sex/poop
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What to do? ???
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Who's the bottom here?
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This book helped me a lot:
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Sometimes….shit happens.
there are ways to avoid it (enema, douche, controlling your diet/when you eat) but yeah, sometimes sex can be messy and accidents happen.
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Get a douche that connects to your shower. It's the best way to clean out.
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You will never see butterflies come out of anyone's butt. If fucking butt or having your butt fucked is what you really want you will have to deal with the possibility of it performing it's natural functions during sex… =P Life's just like that...
If that bothers you so much, you can try having an anal douche before sex and having a more balanced diet. But even so, being aware and just accept the fact that the ass is where shit comes out from is recomendable. I believe we were all hugely misled by porn that sex is something clean and stainless... forget that... it's pure fiction =P -
I don't think there is a single person who has regular anal sex who hasn't got shit on their dick once in a while. It's gonna happen. You take a shower and clean up and move on.
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If avoiding poop is the goal then I'd recommend whomever is bottoming clean themselves out by douching first. I've been an exclusive bottom since I started having sex, and I can tell you that I always would take a good 20 minutes before sex to make sure I was squeaky clean. My ex would good annoyed by it, because he didn't like that we couldn't be spontaneous about things, and that if we got frisky I'd be like "I'll be back in about 15 minutes." However, that's me. I was paranoid by the idea that I wouldn't be spotless and something would come out, so that's the standard I place on myself. That being said even with the precautions there were a couple occasions when there was a small speck of something that ended up on his dick. Of course in those circumstances I'd end up being mortified, but "c'est la vie."
One thing that I can say is that douching, aside from making you as clean as possible, will also greatly reduce any of the unpleasant aromas that can occur with anal sex. That's another reason I always wanted to make sure I took time to prepare things before doing the deed. Hahaha.