Finding someone to experiment with?
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Little info about me: 24, male and gay (of course).
I've always been an avid enthusiast for porn for a good portion of my life, but I feel like I should finally move on to just experimenting with someone. Though, I've been closeted save for a handful of people I trust, some even loosely. I've never had sex, ever (I really just don't like women), and of course I have no STD's. I just want to know, where do I even begin? I'm such a recluse, Jesus. Never even had a gay friend, just all straight.
Even if I were to begin, how would crossing out the risk of STD's be handled? Do I go for a check-up and show verification that I don't have STD's and show it to someone? I don't want to be too trusting but at the same time I'd love to just play with someone's precum in my mouth. I truly want to avoid STD's, medication costs, the symptoms, etc..
Man, if I were to execute my fantasies, I would want to seek out a bear, a 30-45 y/o with a full beard, white; but I probably can't be that picky, but would adore a bear. I want to experiment with someone "raw," no condom. Even then, I'd like to just edge someone with my mouth, indulge in my foot fetish. No ass play entirely. I'd like to tickle them, get into nipple play, get someone to teach me about how to pleasure someone without it involving my ass. I just don't like anal in either way of top or bottom. Pfft, I don't even know how to make out with someone. I'm a huge basket case. But my main goal would be…just to pleasure myself and them.
Though, I feel a bit bad about my appearance. I'm 5'9''. I tie up my hair in a bun because it's just gotten out of hand, I'm pretty overweight, but people think I'm around 180 when I'm weigh more than that. I'm Filipino-American, wear glasses. I've had people think I look like a hipster or an artist lol. Get mistaken my age a lot, mostly people assuming 18 or very early 20s, but that's only when I don't shave my lame facial hair. I'm not even that big down there, I'm like 4'' when hard, when I don't touch it, but if I stretch it out to the point of discomfort, it's like 5.5''. I hate being so self-conscious...
I live around the Chicagoland area, yet, I'm just...so clueless. I've tried searching online, but I feel like maybe it is too shady.
I just...really would like to experiment with someone, one day.
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If you are just looking for sex then use an app…grindr.....scruff.....growlr....bbrt (for bareback). Just be very honest like you were in your post and you will find what you are looking for. Good luck!
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As the person above me said: apps like Grindr, PlanetRomeo and similar could help you with that and trust me you'll find someone since they are all filled with horny dudes wanting to bang and experiment it's however not the best option for someone who's trying to find serious relationship (personal opinion)
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Hi! I like your description! Too bad I live In Nova Scotia and not closer! Try out a site called Squirt it shows hook up locations and reviews and you can message for free and chat.It shows bathhouse locations were its pretty easy to be picky and hook up….in a safe environment designed just for sex. If you only engage in oral and not anal your risk of std's is low. You just have to be wary of things like warts on a cock or balls, anything that does not look right. In all the years of hooking up with guys, i have only got crabs way back, from a friend i shared a bed with! I love swallowing cum too! So you just have to be wary and don't get out of control from being drunk so you do things you never would usually do! Good luck and have fun!
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Is it possible to get my other concerns answered, too?
As the person above me said: apps like Grindr, PlanetRomeo and similar could help you with that and trust me you'll find someone since they are all filled with horny dudes wanting to bang and experiment it's however not the best option for someone who's trying to find serious relationship (personal opinion)
Going to assume that apps are most likely my main source of trying to meet up with someone with other posts suggesting it, too. My phone is shit, and I'm too broke to afford a new one.
Any sites, though, for meeting up with people?
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Alright so…since I've gotten a bit desperate, I've...sought out craigslist.
I know, it's risky. Though I just replied to a post about having my feet worshipped. And then replied to a guy's post about me getting my cock sucked. Now waiting if I'll be greenlit.
The thing is, the guy who posted about sucking others looks hot. I'd love to suck him off. But...I'm very scared of STD's, and this site is infamous for it. Oh man, I just want to taste someone's cock for once and just suck them to the point of precum and edge them.
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If you want to try then being scared of STD and not moving an inch - you will not step forward…
If you do not have an iphone or a smart phone then no problem. Planet romeo has a desktop version too which you can use even in a public computer. :blind: -
Well, never got a reply from any one of those offer I replied to, maybe I really should have put in a picture.
If you want to try then being scared of STD and not moving an inch - you will not step forward…
If you do not have an iphone or a smart phone then no problem. Planet romeo has a desktop version too which you can use even in a public computer. :blind:Being afraid of STD's is not bad at all, considering the long-term effects are terrible.
Anyway, I'll consider that site, I am typing from a personal computer.