What’s your definition of ‘slut’?

spam17

What does the word ‘slut’ even mean?

Is there a number on it? Like, if you’ve slept with 29 people you’re not a slut, but if you’ve slept with 30, you are?

Is Pamela Anderson a slut?

I don’t see Pamela as a slut, I see her as a cultural icon/militant animal rights activist.

The word ‘slut’ doesn’t actually bother me. What bothers me is anyone being finitely defined by anything – including the number of people they’ve slept with.

What's your opinion?

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mufum69

I find that when I was younger the odds are if i liked someone and they ignored me i branded them a slut.

These days I actually feel they just are sexually liberated and really know how to enjoy a good time.
I've been called a male slut by one of my co-workers just because i had had a few relationships.
Guess it all depends on different cultures or upbringing.

So in the end It's really up to the person and how they feel about it.

Here's something from 1939 that always stood out for me on the subject:

Now about sex. Many of us needed an overhauling
there. But above all, we tried to be sensible on this
question. It’s so easy to get way off the track. Here
we find human opinions running to extremes—absurd
extremes, perhaps. One set of voices cry that sex is a
lust of our lower nature, a base necessity of procrea-
tion. Then we have the voices who cry for sex and
more sex; who bewail the institution of marriage; who
think that most of the troubles of the race are traceable
to sex causes. They think we do not have enough of it,
or that it isn’t the right kind. They see its significance
everywhere. One school would allow man no flavor
for his fare and the other would have us all on a
straight pepper diet. We want to stay out of this controversy.
We do not want to be the arbiter of anyone’s
sex conduct. We all have sex problems. We’d hardly
be human if we didn’t

ffuck

To me, the word "slut" is not that much about the number of people you have been with, but I define it more like:
"a person who likes having casual sex and is not afraid of admitting it, and is willing to experiment on lots of sexual stuff in order to gain experiences."

In other words, being a slut is about the attitude you have towards sex. It's not pejorative. I consider myself to be a slut and I'm proud of it. I will hook up with guys I've just met. I'll have casual sex with men that are outside my typical spectrum, just for the experience. I will try most fetishes at least once. I will buy and use sex toys, talk about my sexual experiences casually, cheer for people who also like sex and are not ashamed of saying it loud. I consider sex to be both a hobby of mine, as well as a form of art in general, and I will try my best to be the best at it

Demonizing the term is offensive, cause it's like saying that sex is wrong. Which is not at all correct, since sex is natural.
Anyone who has a different opinion, DEAL WITH IT!

brianboru72

:true:

I feel that slut as a pejorative term is mainly a judgement made by someone more conservative towards someone who is less inhibited sexually.
Who cares if someone chooses to be promiscuous? Or monogamous for that matter? As a gay man who has suffered under the judgement of society- I feel that judging someone because of how much or how little consensual sex they engage in is ridiculous.

humandoormat

sluts are lurkers

sakyo

A slut is someone that'll have sex with anyone including me, and on the other hand a bitch is someone that will have sex with anyone except me LOL

ffuck

@sakyo:

A slut is someone that'll have sex with anyone including me, and on the other hand a bitch is someone that will have sex with anyone except me LOL

I hope you are joking and you don't actually believe in that (altho it's true that most of society has the same thought on those terms), cause both of those definitions are super offensive $:-\$ $:-\$

hhsq

Me!!! =D

sakyo

@ffuck:

@sakyo:

A slut is someone that'll have sex with anyone including me, and on the other hand a bitch is someone that will have sex with anyone except me LOL

I hope you are joking and you don't actually believe in that (altho it's true that most of society has the same thought on those terms), cause both of those definitions are super offensive $:-\$ $:-\$

Haha of coz

tinci01

I think a slut in bad way would be someone who'd have sex with anyone they can get their hands on just because he or she would need to get fucked or would need to fuck. Bitch would be someone who'd then do something wrong to the other person.

horyna

Every good looking guy who has sex with other people but says "No" to me!

edit: oh, someone made this joke before. Yeah, I should read the threads before I answer. But it's a good joke, one can't tell it often enough.