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    How can I make my Boyfriend enjoy are sex again?

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      martin526 last edited by

      My boyfriend seems to be getting bored for a little while now whenever we have sex, any tips on how can I surprise my BF so he can enjoy the sex again and perform better?

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        kumar777 last edited by

        Be inventive and without inhibition. For instance, you can wake up your man with an unexpected blowjob. When he returns from work, as he is opening the door, grab his crotch to pull him inside and start pumping him.  :sucky: :sucky: :sucky: :bj2:

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          trader23 last edited by

          How about a nice shoulder rub when he gets in, and then make sure it has a happy ending? 
          Or sit on the couch, give him a footrub, and go up from there.

          Sometimes it's a matter of not feeling appreciated.

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            mkegam last edited by

            A new car is only new for so long.
            After that, all it can be is a good car.
            For some people, that's not enough, and they'll look for new cars because their looking for excitement of "new".
            The thing is, you can't bring back new.

            What I'm saying is it's probably not really you.
            Your partner may think he's "had" you and is bored.
            Maybe introduce something different.

            You could try role play, to simulate being someone new.
            Or you could try to introduce something you haven't tried before, like toys.
            Or for some people, it's a setting. So, maybe try sex in different places, like go on a trip, or rent a hotel room.
            Maybe suggest trying something he hasn't tried before, or asking if there's something he's wanted to try but hasn't.

            Interest is different for everyone. All you can do is try to figure out how to keep it interesting.
            It would be nice to say, "just do this thing" and everything will work out, but life doesn't work that way.

            It may be that his fetish, is "new" as it is with many guys, and there may be nothing you can do about it.

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              jimmywood last edited by

              If none of the suggestions so far works, you could always ask him.  He might have some insight into what he needs to find more excitement and satisfaction in bed… and maybe some fun ideas of things you could try  😉

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                pittstop17 last edited by

                Try new things. Explore fetishes. New positions.

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                  uzuzjh last edited by

                  some are turned on by knowing you've had an other guy.
                  it'll only make him even more horny… it's crazy but that's how men function!
                  the more you let loose, the more he'll crawl!

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                    martin526 last edited by

                    Thanks for the tip Guys!!! 😄

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                      dcluvsme last edited by

                      @uzuzjh:

                      some are turned on by knowing you've had an other guy.
                      it'll only make him even more horny… it's crazy but that's how men function!
                      the more you let loose, the more he'll crawl!

                      What he said. This always works. Gay or Straight.

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                        JerodParker last edited by

                        Ask him if you're okay to do a threesome, haha.

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