Bisexuality
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Sometimes I wish was gay or straight. Bisexuality can yank with your head sometimes. I really love fucking girls, fucking guys, getting fucked by guys, oral every which way and gender.
Not sure if having this wide range of interests is a curse or blessing.
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Always thought it would be a blessing? Best of both worlds sort of thing? But that's just me speculating…
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I'm bi but yet to be in any relationship but did a reasonable amount of personal research. I think we just have to accept that we'll get those highs and lows where we really want some cock or some pussy but if we love the person we're with you just have to compromise like any other issue like masturbating when your partner has a lower sex drive or in our case probably fuck ourselves silly with a dildo in the shower. I don't see it as a blessing or a curse, just another thing to deal with.
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yeah, i also think it's more a blessing than a curse…you have more options/variety to choose from
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I can be really hard for people to understand. I find that a lot of gay guys simply don't get it, and want to insist to me that because I like the D, I must be gay. It doesn't matter at all, apparently, that I also like sex with women.
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When 98% whatever of people are straight or gay and fighting for it, the Bi remains in the middle of it.
And most of the stigma come from many gays that use the "I'm bi" excuse when they start to come out because they are not confortable with the "gay" label. We all saw that happen.
Nowdays I accept the Bi identity. Anyway I'more in a "whatever feels you confortable" mind on those subjects…
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Straight guys are often afraid because of gay stereotypes. They don't want to be the guy in the daisy dukes waving his rainbow flag. I don't want to be that guy either so I'm not.
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Bisexual activist Robyn Ochs defines bisexuality as "the potential to be attracted—romantically and/or sexually—to people of more than one sex and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree."
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I've known my wife since 1996. Twenty fucking years this November. From the beginning I have been open and honest about my sexual attraction to guys. It's never been an issue between us. The way I approach all my relationships, I tell you who I am honestly, no games. Tell you what I like. What I can accept. And what I can't accept. If it's compatible with your list, great. If not, we shake hands, wish each other luck and move on.
While being with my wife, I have had sex with guys. One night stands. Fuck buddies. Even dated. But it's always been the guys who have the problem. Sometimes they can't get it out of their heads and act and believe that I am cheating. Often they become jealous of my wife. My wife and I have been together a long time. We worked on our relationship for years. Someone I've known for two months can't expect the same type of relationship as with a women I've known 5, 10, or 20 years.
My wife has given relationship advice to guys I've dated. Almost every time, they ignore it or do the exact opposite. Than I blow up because they've done something that enrages me. And attacking my wife is a very bad move. My wife is capable of defending herself. She has backed me up in physical fights. I am not jealous where she is concerned. She has dated and had sex with other guys. I know she is with me. And if there ever comes a time when she doesn't want to be with me, I trust in her honesty, trust that she'll tell me. I am not a jealous man. But once, someone I was seeing called my wife a bitch…
So gay? bi? I no longer care. I like what I want to like. Do what I want to do. Try not to cause too much damage as I live my life. You don't like that? You can fuck off.
And as for stereotypes... I'll wear what I want to wear. If it's a purple fucking tutu, I'll wear a purple fucking tutu. I'll dance along to a Bollywood musical. Scream out the lyrics to a punk song. Bake some goddamn cookies. I will not let anyone tell me how to be gay. I will not let anyone tell me how to be straight. How to be a "real" man. I make the decisions for me. I will live my life the way I want to live it.
