Do you feel physical pleasure when you get fucked?
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I'm an "aspiring" bottom (I'm very nervous so I don't get fucked often, too tight)
I've never felt any physical pleasure, is this normal? I can get the emotional/mental thing, but I don't feel anything physically except slight discomfort.
Can anyone weigh in on this?
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Same here. No matter how often I tried, I just couldn't feel a thing. So I just accepted I'm a top and moved on.
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You're not getting hit in the prostate by an expert top. I was getting it from a guy before and it was just the sensation of the cock in my ass. Then one visiting guy put it in me and I was whoooooa! I had to stop him after a while because the sensation was just too much! I want a guy like that again.
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You are not getting any pleasure because your guy is not hitting your g-spot (prostate) at all.. If you dont trust me, just do it by yourself by massaging your prostate with your finger or a sex toy, you wont need a man after that to give you please :cheesy2:
And a top who knows how to fuck will make you cum without even you touch you dick :cheers:
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its nice feel i think when u got it
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I must not have met the right top.
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I do and really enjoy it kinda miss it even considering i'm strictly a top in this relationship.
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First times when I was bottoming, I didn't even feel slight pleasure. I was mostly in pain. So I had decided that I am not made for it. But my thoughts changed while with a guy one time, It felt good. I was on top of him.
Then I tried with some other guys and there were different experiences. With some guys, it felt so good while with some it was ok.
So I guess, it depends on the guy, your mood and last but not the least Sexual position… :cheesy2: -
Everyones prostate is not exactly in the same place. Yes the general area most of the time but all bodies are different. Do you know where your own special spot is? Have you found it when you masturbate so you know how to direct the person to hit it? Or you making sure its getting hit? You need to learn your own body before expecting someone else to.
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You should invest in a few dildos, each varying from different sizes both length and girth. Those will help to stretch your hole and make it so you can feel a little more pleasure while having sex. I was somewhat the same where I wanted to bottom and enjoy it but I was far too tight from a sporadic sex life. The dildos will also help you to locate the exact spot of your prostate.
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I think the lube also plays a role. Back when i used waterbased, it felt just like "K"
Now im using hybrid lube and it actually feels good. I dont know why but it just does. (Same guy) -
I'm an "aspiring" bottom (I'm very nervous so I don't get fucked often, too tight)
I've never felt any physical pleasure, is this normal? I can get the emotional/mental thing, but I don't feel anything physically except slight discomfort.
Can anyone weigh in on this?
same here
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No, I don't fuck for the pleasure of it, I fuck because I have to reproduce!
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Try out different positions. I usually get most pleasure when I'm on top riding.
I also agree with what others said, the guy and his dick is a big factor.
