Changing Preference of Men
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Have your taste of men changes (expanding, narrowing, changing entirely) as you grow up?
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I have given thus some thought and decided to pen my thoughts here.
As a youngster, I would look up to older guys/men like a father kind of figure wanting them to take control and kind of pure teenage lust getting in the way.
In my twenties, I kinda formulated a profile of guys I would be interested in, but still, hormones in the way, any one coming along would satisfy my needs. ;D
I'm in my forties now, and my formulation of a profile of guys I would be interested in has changed somewhat, now wanting to play the father figure to someone younger than me.
So yeah, I'd go along the lines that your preferences and desires do change over time, I would like to add though, the basic profile remains the same in I still prefer blue eyed blond surfer guys. >:D
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When I was younger I prefer the skinny and hairless men… but now, almost the opposite: I love bears :cheers:
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While it might not mean much being almost 24 but ever since I was a kid I loved the daddy types , hairy , older , salt & pepper , etc kind of men and still prefer them.
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I have always loved skinny boddies
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Oh, yes. Absolutely.
We evolve as we grow older, even in spans of time as short as a couple of years. Sure, there are still types of people that are simply not for me and I'd never go to bed with, but my range has definitely widened as I grow more mature. Here's the key: meeting the right person in your real life that changes your mind. There may be someone who you'd immediately swipe away on Tinder or block on Grindr based on a profile pic that you encounter in the real world, and that person may eventually charm the pants off of you with sheer force of personality and unexplained magnetism.
In my experience, once that happens even once, that "type" of guy is forever unlocked for you as potentially attractive.
I've been an active horndog for over 15 years now. There are types I feel immensely drawn to now in my 30s that would've repulsed me when I was 18.
Here's a good example … I never liked feminine slender twinky types until I met the right guy and got a crush on him a few years ago. Now ... I can't get enough of those types. So many people proudly blast "straight acting" in their personal ads, or even go so far as to say "no fems" in an effort to keep this type away. I never went that far, but I definitely wouldn't have pursued someone overly flamboyant in the past. I'd make friends, but not want to have sex.
Now, after I fell for that one sweet little princess of a twink a couple of years ago ... a really sassy, high-pitched "gay accent" attached to a cute face with a very slender, smooth body drives me absolutely wild.
More examples: When I first turned 18, I was all about Bel Ami and bronzed jock/swimmer types, or muscley Falcon hunks. I still see those guys as attractive, but now, the porn those studios produce bores me to tears. I'd rather see a real man with a plain face who fucks hard and enthusiastically in a Machofucker or TIM video than I would an obviously bored golden Aldonis in Bel Ami simply enduring the mechanics of the sex so he can collect a paycheck.
I've learned to like well-maintained and groomed, masculine bald guys ... sexy muscle bears, skinny femmy twinks, lots of types that wouldn't have turned my head when I was just an emerging little pervert.
There are all sorts of ways for a man to be attractive. There are also all sorts of ways for men to be gross, but yeah ... my range of acceptance has definitely widened, and that's just me with barely a few years of sexual evolution. ;D
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We evolve as we grow older, even in spans of time as short as a couple of years. Sure, there are still types of people that are simply not for me and I'd never go to bed with, but my range has definitely widened as I grow more mature. Here's the key: meeting the right person in your real life that changes your mind. There may be someone who you'd immediately swipe away on Tinder or block on Grindr based on a profile pic that you encounter in the real world, and that person may eventually charm the pants off of you with sheer force of personality and unexplained magnetism.
I totally agree with this. It's sad that Tinder or Grindr can only give you so much in a profile and that's what we have to work with. There is nothing like meeting someone in person and really getting a feel for their personality. Sadly, there are many folks who wouldn't be willing to take that chance if the profile pic doesn't hit all their prerequisite hotness levels.
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When I first embraced my interest to men, I liked beefy, muscly guys. I still do now, albeit toned down some more. Then I was into bears, then otters, sometimes twinks. But after I met my boyfriend, who was more average at that time, not too fat, not too skinny either, and I completely dismissed my preference.
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I've been thinking about this a lot and my taste has changed almost a whole 360. Yes I'm still attracted to pretty boys who are light skinned and black but now I'm into more of a ruffed up hairy chest look. I used to go for prep pretty boy high maintenance if u may, but now Im more into of a manly man who's more beefy than prissy. I used to proclaim my masculinity so hard but now I just want to be treated like a princess
who wants to treat me like a princess lol I'm still masculine all the way I'm just a big baby sometimes.
