Dating a "sextaper"
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I've just met this guy, nice muscular bottom, amazing company and we traveled last week. But i've just realized that the guy's got a porn video performing sex (hidden face, obviously him because of the tattoo and scar on the ears). Got pissed, and wtf i'm i doing now?! i like the dude, but i can even think of trying some serious shit with a guy whose exposed online… What would you do?!
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But he's not really 'exposed' online, as his face is obscured. Better question is how you found the video. Did he show you it? Did you find it? How easily can you find the video? Is it circulating on many online porn sites? And what are the chances of others finding out it's him?
Another good question is if he wants to make any more. It might just have been an experiment. One of those 'naughty' things, that you do once, and never again.
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I don't quite follow his 'exposure online' and your involvement. He's not asking that you go online too, is he ?
In which case it's just a case of you and another person getting together in private, surely
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I had an ex who was a model in porn magazines many years before we got together and in the 7 years we spent together it rarely came up. Usually only in house moves or spring cleans when I would stumble upon an old contact sheet or one of his magazines and wind him up about how much I loved VINTAGE porn.
Presumably you are happy to watch online porn etc do you think those who participate in them have less valid relationships off cam? They all have real lives with friends, families and partners etc. I realise he isn't actually a porn star, but there is so much cock and ass online, does stuff like that even matter these days? It wouldn't matter to me in the slightest.
Perhaps if you are curious or concearned about the reasons why he is online in a sex video you should just ask him about it? If you like eachother enough to want a relationship you should be able to open and honest with eachother.
You asked "What would you do?" I don't know, but I what I wouldn't do is judge him about it and write him off before we had even discussed it.
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Have you got an issue on guy(s) doing online porn? You wrote that you just met him, do you expect this guy to tell you he's doing online porn whom you have just met?
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so where can we see the tape?
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You're on a regulated porn site where you've downloaded 100+ GB worth and you're pissed at and judging this guy who made a blurry home vid? Girl, please.
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You're on a regulated porn site where you've downloaded 100+ GB worth and you're pissed at and judging this guy who made a blurry home vid? Girl, please.
Hahaha nice one.
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But he's not really 'exposed' online, as his face is obscured. Better question is how you found the video. Did he show you it? Did you find it? How easily can you find the video? Is it circulating on many online porn sites? And what are the chances of others finding out it's him?
Another good question is if he wants to make any more. It might just have been an experiment. One of those 'naughty' things, that you do once, and never again.
Was looking for amateur porn in my country. And recognized him on xvideos.
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I would tell him I saw it and then tell him I use to have a webcam site on line myself. Had 3 cams in the apartment that went 24/7. Then we could make out and move on.
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I would tell him I saw it and then tell him I use to have a webcam site on line myself. Had 3 cams in the apartment that went 24/7. Then we could make out and move on.
good one! :funny2:
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Isn't it at least a bit hypocritical of you to judge someone for being a sextaper here in a porn forum? I mean, wtf are you doing here in the first place thinking like that?
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Well, I guess marriage is most certainly now OFF the table? I mean, personally speaking, I don't blame you– Imagine what this would do to your future political career if it ever got out. You're walking past a newsstand, there it is in big red letters on the newspapers and tabloids:
"Revenger caught out in sordid affair with a 'SEXTAPER'"Well it's shameful enough to make anyone with an ounce of dignity go into hiding in some little Costa Rican shanty town, isn't it? I know I certainly would claim to never have known you (no offense, Darling, but really).
The scandal alone would make you the laughing stock at Somerset country club, and you run the risk of never being invited to one of Bunny Wexler's dinner parties ever again. Quite frankly, the whole situation is just ghastly!
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Too much 'bitchy' snark.
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Interesting how all the replies in here make it look all bad for me being worried about it. But i ask myself , who in the world wouldn't care?! there is a thing called behaviorism, and someone whose "sextape" are problably more focused in sexual adventures than relationships. However, I WAS RIGHT. The guy who i've mentioned in this topic was on o grindr today looking for sex, so obviously behaviorism is a real shit! But was funny for me to see how the kind of "fuck wit everybody and wanna a bf" thinking, and thats ok if i expose myself online, which lasts forever, because i can turn the light "BF" when i'm on it, than turn it off when i wannna be a slut…. wake up hoes. Theres no such a thing. It's absolutely possible having real relationships btw men, but like in any othe modality if you chose this you gotta behave accordingly... The guy wasn't a "SEXTAPER" , was an usual guy, and now that i got rid of him i'm on the game again! at least i don't make my sexuality a self-indulgence free exposed bullshit!! Anyway...
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That's so weird… In another topic here you said you prefer one night stands over relationships. Why are other people whores but not yourself? You are trully sounding more and more hypocrite.
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Interesting how all the replies in here make it look all bad for me being worried about it. But i ask myself , who in the world wouldn't care?! there is a thing called behaviorism, and someone whose "sextape" are problably more focused in sexual adventures than relationships. However, I WAS RIGHT. The guy who i've mentioned in this topic was on o grindr today looking for sex, so obviously behaviorism is a real shit! But was funny for me to see how the kind of "fuck wit everybody and wanna a bf" thinking, and thats ok if i expose myself online, which lasts forever, because i can turn the light "BF" when i'm on it, than turn it off when i wannna be a slut…. wake up hoes. Theres no such a thing. It's absolutely possible having real relationships btw men, but like in any othe modality if you chose this you gotta behave accordingly... The guy wasn't a "SEXTAPER" , was an usual guy, and now that i got rid of him i'm on the game again! at least i don't make my sexuality a self-indulgence free exposed bullshit!! Anyway...
Hmmmm, well… OK. This feels a lot like going out to a gay club with a straight girl whom you initially thought was chill, but then when she gets to the club all she wants to do is sit in the corner booth the whole night nursing one drink and bitching about how she's so much better than those sluts on Tindr because she's saving herself for marriage.
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i prefer not to do anything about his secret work….pretend you didn't know
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The post about Somerset country club was to die for….
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Well, I guess marriage is most certainly now OFF the table? I mean, personally speaking, I don't blame you– Imagine what this would do to your future political career if it ever got out. You're walking past a newsstand, there it is in big red letters on the newspapers and tabloids:
"Revenger caught out in sordid affair with a 'SEXTAPER'"Well it's shameful enough to make anyone with an ounce of dignity go into hiding in some little Costa Rican shanty town, isn't it? I know I certainly would claim to never have known you (no offense, Darling, but really).
The scandal alone would make you the laughing stock at Somerset country club, and you run the risk of never being invited to one of Bunny Wexler's dinner parties ever again. Quite frankly, the whole situation is just ghastly!
and whats WRONG with Muriel Puce !!!???!!!
