So I'm fucking my cousin!!! AHHHHH!!!!
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So I have a bit of a dilemma…. It's kind of funny, and kind of redneck of me all at the same time...
See, I started seeing this guy up North, completely not clueing into his last name, since I'm not all that close with my father's side of the family. I mean, I know if you go to the small town of Cochrane up North, about 2/3 of the phone book are related to me, down to and including the last name. What I didn't realize is that this connection goes even farther out in this general neck of the woods than I thought. So.... I'm a little perplexed as to what to do with this whole situation. Allow me to explain things a little more clearly, as the situation has already become quite bizarre to say the least.
So I start seeing this guy, not having any clue about the connection in the family until after about a good week of fucking non-stop. After about a week, we decide it's time to meet the family. I of course thought nothing of this really...... until I walked into the family function, only to see 4 of my relatives that I am actually related to by blood in the room and suddenly, my heart was in my throat. It was at that moment that all the pieces started to come together and it came to surface that apparently, my father's cousin married one of his cousins. Nevertheless, as much as we're technically only related by marriage (thankfully), it's still weird to see both of us calling some of the same people aunt or uncle. No matter which way you look at it (by marriage or otherwise), it's a little strange to have the whole topic of conversation steer to "so... you're fucking your cousin".
So... All of this being said, I'm a little lost as to what exactly to do here and how exactly to handle the whole situation. As it is, breaking the news to that branch of my family that I'm HIV+ was bad enough, but having to explain the whole we're technically not cousins, even though we are legally classified as such thing is a little strange to me. This is why I bring this to the masses.... Anyone have any thoughts on how to handle such a delicate situation?
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I dont see any problem here. It seems like a dream come true to me. Its actually pretty hot. I dont have any problem with gay incest as there are no consequencies and if the fact that ur fathers cousin married his cousin, and eventually they had kids, doesnt bother ur family, this shouldnt be an issue.
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Well other then the relatives giving you both the hairy eyeball… snickers Seriously, it's not that bad or that redneck. You're only related via completely unrelated relatives who married. No real issues there, you can't have kids, so again, no major issues.
Yeah, it's a bit weird, but no weirder that step siblings, or twins who share a partner.
So the question you really have to ask yourself is this. IS the relationship worth the weird looks from various relatives?
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True…. It just seems so weird to know that people we both regard as family are either related by blood to me or to him.... What's more fucked up is knowing that one particular branch of the family tree is actually related by blood to both of us lol
I guess that my latest addition to my hoodie collection is much more fitting for me now than ever
The funnier thing is that this was the hoodie that I was wearing when I went to the family function where as it turns out, relatives of both of our sides of the blood line were attending
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I have been in a relationship with a cousin of mine before that lasted a few years. I knew he was my cousin. Actually its funny but in the gay lifestyle the word "incest" doesn't exsist. I wouldn't stop seeing him or having the fun you are with him. In small towns it is more than likely you will find someone attractive and fall into a relationship with someone in your family.
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Without photos, without "So I'm fucking my cousin"
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It's sort of cute, actually.
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It's all good, you are not related, so it's not incest. Plus if you did not know about each other, then your family ties are not that close anyway.
Even if it was full on incest it's not like you can have inbred babies.
Two adults can do whatever they want.
