Bottoming hurts?
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how does being a bottom hurts?
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For me it did hurt in the beginning when i not was use to it. Today it only hurts if my husband takes me a little to hard. Because he has so mutch precum we seldom use lubricant. or very little of it
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I tried to insert something in my ass but I don't like it very much, so I don't know…
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It was never really good for me till I challenged my hole with a 6 inch circumference dildo. I put it in mm by mm squeezing hard and going in when I relaxed. It stretched out the muscles and now I can just put in that dildo a day before sex and it feels great. If your anus is all pumped with blood it will hurt like a bitch so always play with it in the minutes before dick insertion
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The first time it hurt like a bitch.The second time not so much. It got to be where it didn't hurt.But it never really felt good. Then I got fucked by this guy who made me feel like I was just on the edge of a orgasm, just by screwing me. He was pushing along my prostate with every thrust. Bottoming went from something I would do, but didn't enjoy. To the top of my list of ways to make me cum.
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For me the first few times felt uncomfortable and sometimes painful, what worked for me was using silicon lube then being on top slide the guys cock inside and sit there without moving for a little while and my body adjusts and relaxes, the pain and tingling dissipate (maybe 1 minute) then get going as per normal. That's my secret
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hurts in the beg but feels great after you get used to it
try it soon you'll have a big gape :cheers:
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hurts alot for first time.
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Sometimes a little bit of pain is not necessarily a bad thing.
BUT, in my experience, if there is noticeable pain while bottoming, it is usually because
1. You aren't using enough lube, or you let it dry out, or
2. The bottom hasn't fully relaxed his sphincter.
The second one is surely the most common, which is why foreplay is so important. Also, exploring your own anus with your fingers and later toys, so you get used to the sensations. And especially if you are new to bottoming, or haven't bottomed in a while, make sure you're with someone who knows what they're doing, knows to go slowly enough not to hurt you, and hopefully someone you're attracted to enough and trust enough that your hole will want to open up for them. -
You make bottoming sound so HOT!
The first time it hurt like a bitch.The second time not so much. It got to be where it didn't hurt.But it never really felt good. Then I got fucked by this guy who made me feel like I was just on the edge of a orgasm, just by screwing me. He was pushing along my prostate with every thrust. Bottoming went from something I would do, but didn't enjoy. To the top of my list of ways to make me cum.
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Bottoming is just a matter of practice. You may feel pain at first, but you will get used to it and starting to enjoy the pleasure. My advice is to train it at home with dildos and lube.
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I do? I don't think I am very good with the written word. But Thanks for saying so! The truth is it is a hell of a lot of fun.You make bottoming sound so HOT!
The first time it hurt like a bitch.The second time not so much. It got to be where it didn't hurt.But it never really felt good. Then I got fucked by this guy who made me feel like I was just on the edge of a orgasm, just by screwing me. He was pushing along my prostate with every thrust. Bottoming went from something I would do, but didn't enjoy. To the top of my list of ways to make me cum.