Most of the young ones dont core. If they see they might ask about sexual health though.

It was never really good for me till I challenged my hole with a 6 inch circumference dildo. I put it in mm by mm squeezing hard and going in  when I relaxed. It stretched out the muscles and now I can just put in that dildo a day before sex and it feels great. If your anus is all pumped with blood it will hurt like a bitch so always play with it in the minutes before dick insertion