The right to diminish others…
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In another thread someone was talking about rudeness. In the last days on LPSG (Large Penis Support Group) I had the bad idea of partecipating in a thread about pornstar size and I had the second bad idea of saying I have a 7" cock (that's above average but not so big I can brag about) but compared to some verified 7" pornstar it seems small.
Now it was a thread about camera angles, lens and other trick used like using very small bottom/girls, so I wasn't ready to the fact that two other members (hidden between privacy for their photos) started to say my cock couldn't be over 6" even if as I did here I posted the measured photo.
I even took the photos again according to thei directives to demonstate a was not tricking in the first photo, but there was ever something not right for them.At the end I went away saying that in a site called Large Penis SUPPORT Group they had not the right to doubt of all I did just to show them I'm not a liar (when many others going, they say, from 8" to 13" never posted a measure). I didn't go around criticize other penis or telling mine was bigger (also because I saw thing much bigger than mine even without a measure), so I cannot even say that I deserved this treatment only because I really tried to prove my statements.
My question is: there is a supposed "right" to doubt of everyone and keeping diminish the others no matter how many proof you can show?
In this case it was a penis, but I encountered many people like this that doubt about your degree, your place in a contest even if you can prove it (not all can, this too is true), your IQ (no, I dind't scientifically measured my IQ, it's just an example), in some case even your happiness?
This is something I don't understand… It's really necessary to bully someone instead of support him for whatever reason? -
… It's really necessary to bully someone instead of support him for whatever reason?
I'm afraid for some people it is, especially if they can do it anonymously and online.
Check out the number of torrent comments which say things like 'crap quality', 'why did you post this', 'so slow' instead of leaving an encouraging word or just passing on.
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I guess you're right, but it's really annoying… let's share a bit of love instead of hate :hug:
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Oh, I'm all for that :hug2:
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This is something I don't understand… It's really necessary to bully someone instead of support him for whatever reason?
A lot of it has to do with anonymous online forums. As the novelist Louis Ferdinand Céline wrote in the early 20th century, "When there's no risk attached to hating people, stupidity quickly discovers conviction." Then again, some people are just assholes – as Mac from "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" said in the 21st century:
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Diminishing others only shows your own insecurities and weaknesses
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"Support" group?
Aside from what I am sure is a total misnomer for the reason people are on that page, the destruction of another is a psychological tool of the generally weak or arrogantly entitled to increase their own esteem based on their ideal self.
It's purely a self-presentation mechanism to control external impressions. A person that is comfortable with themselves has no need for this behaviour.
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Well, there are (but it's almost obvious that are mostly gay people) support threads… like "how to ease the insertion of a big cock" or similar, but I committed the error to post in the "straight section" where obviously there is not such sensibility.
But for me even appreciation is support (and I appreciate other big cocks when I see them :cheesy2: ). -
:dick: :cum: :funny2: :pope: It's never a good idea trying to convince someone that you're telling the truth and or not lying, especially in regards to the size of one's member. People believe what they want, when they want and how they want.
It's not a stress situation IMHO :bsex:
