A few insecurities
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Hi, I have few questions:) i am 19 y old shy guy from village, i know i am gay from 10y but i am still virgin. It is weird or no? In middle school there was one gay who was normally saying to people he haved sex in 13y and now have a few fuckbuddies ( i am still thinking he was lying) Another question is about my dick, when i measured it with fabric it is from root to cockhead 7 inchs, when i measure with plastic i was 5 inchs, if i pushed my dick so it was straight i was also 7 inch, but it hurted ( no hurted, it was unpleasant, my dick is like banana pointing down, will be there problems with sex? and what about size? can i say i am 7inchs when it look smaller because of angle? another question is abotu masturbating, i am normally masturbating in bed, and i have problem masturbating while standing or in chair, i can still shoot but i must masturbating longer and feeling is weird - short high feeling, and after that i am really sleepy, in bed i can cum 5-7x in day, while standing i can only 1x 2x, it is weird or no? i dont need use lube while jacking, if i use it is is harded to cum, i like when i have my rough hand on my cock, it is normal too? because i normally see people use lube on jacking off and edging and one question about my fetish - is healthy or better no risk drinking frozen cum? or stale cum ( i saw few videos with bottles full of cum) thanks for answer and sorry for bad english
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Lots of questions to answer. :hug:
It's not unusual for someone your age not to have had sex, especially since you live in a village. If you lived in a big city, then maybe.
it's common for boys of that age to lie about having sex. So I agree with you. He was probably lying.
I didn't actually see how you measured your penis, but I'll take a guess. You are probably closer to 7 inches.
There won't be any problems having sex with a penis that has the same curve as a banana.
Sex, including masturbation, requires the balls to get some bouncing action. Most people masturbate on the bed with their legs closed, but do it on a chair with their legs apart. On the bed your balls are getting action from your hand, while in a chair they are down between your legs away from your hand.
The orgasm/post orgasm reaction is normal in men.
I would stay away from drinking stale cum. It starts to decay and you don't know what could be in it. I don't know about frozen cum.
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Yes it is normal. Gay men usually loses their virginity older than regular straight guys. For gay men I think its common to lose after 20 years old. I'm 22 and still virgin U.u.
He was lying. People lie about that stuff.
About the measures, first it really doesn't matter the size of your cock, it's just about how to use it. And it is closer to 7 inches.
About masturbation, to me I see no difference to do it in bed, or sitting or standing. But each body works different. Feeling sleepy is a normal thing after having an orgasm. And it's not weird that you can't masturbate much standing, I think it's weird that you masturbate 5 times a day Oo. I masturbate once a day, and in some really rare cases 2 times in the same day, never did more than that. I also do it without lube, I prefer it. It really just depends on the person.
Well frozen cum, I don't think would be a problem. But stale I wouldn't recommend.
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ok lets cross stale:D i am waiting for my school start, normally a jerk off 1x-2x, btu i have now a lot of free time so i dont know what to do:D
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A lot of teens get in a habit of getting off the same ways all the time – lying down, same bed, same time, same technique every day/night. When you start having sex (don't worry about when you start, it will happen), you'll probably realize how totally different it is from just normal masturbation. And some guys like me had a hard time getting off those first few sexual experiences, even though it was really hot. It might take some time but I think you'll figure out lots of different ways to get off, different positions, different techniques, different men, etc.
Don't stress out about it. Just focus on having fun!
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When you talk about stale of frozen cum, I assume you're talking about your own. Stale cum is OK for smelling, but not eating. Frozen cum is OK. But do this only with your own cum! Freezing cum will not kill any viruses, including HIV, that might be in it.
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Don't worry, I lost my virginity with 23! Gay men usually lose later because of insecuries with their own sexualities at those tender ages…
And 7 inches is a very nice cock! ;D -
You are perfectly normal in every way. Masturbation is all about self pleasure, so what ever way makes it feel best for you is how you should do it. When I was your age I masturbated 5 to 10 times a day when I wasn't busy. Your sex drive is in overdrive right now, and you're always horny, so I don't feel that is uncommon either, especially since you aren't releasing any other way ie sexual intercourse or oral sex. The size of your penis, is not anything serious either, 7 inches is actually a very nice size, and 5 isn't horrible either. At this point you don't even know if you like using it yet so why should it even matter. Now when it comes to the sperm thing, just be extremely careful. Your sperm is fine to experiment with but drinking others either frozen or stale can be an issue. I wouldn't suggest it.
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Dude, don't worry… I'm 19 too, and i can say to you that everyone have their time.
I was devasted when i'm 18, because i was virgin, and i felt horrible, because all my friends (straight, and i'm still today discrete) had girlfriends or a active sex life.I was shy too and i lived in a small city. One day, I traveled to pass a week in another city in a friends house. He went to work all day long, so i decided to walk around and meet people.
I met an older guy (he is 32), a very nice person, via chat. I said to him that i'm intrested in sex, and he asked me to went into his house.
I was terrified, i was like: omg he'll kidnap and kill me. But when i met him personally, it wasn't so bad.
I had an awesome sex, omg... I went into heavens. I realised that fuck loose virginity early or after. I was ready for it, the sex doesn't happen with one person, you know that you're prepared when you have the right time and the right person, or any person inclined to it.You feel ready and he or she wants? go for it
