Also looking for some of the older videos starring Cash.

They seem to be vigilant with copyright takedowns :cry2:

yeah thats a real shame, i also would love seeing more of that.
there were some movies way back, at Control T Studio who had this theme

Please upload some more of these spanking vids

In fore play I usually give the other guy a couple of smacks and see how he responds. If he gives me a few spanks I try to increase the intensity if he is into it you will soon know. IF he doesn't respond you also know.

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Thanks for clarify it for everyone. I'm going to have a spank session soon, where I'm going to be the spankee, and I was a little bit worried about it.

@proot:

I think the best is traditionally with hands, maybe gloved…..  :cool2:

I would love to be spanked by guy with leather gloves on. Sounds so hot.  >:D

me is in my secondary school. My fellow student come to the board to take their caning punishment. And I was turned on by just watching

I would like to see more storylines, stuff where, like say Spanking Central uses it's models to incorporate more bondage with its spanking to mix things up and storylines in which we really look at the way pain becomes pleasure. that's the thing for me, that moment when pain becomes pleasure and the way that can take you over the edge. Mostly, it's just but spanking and the occasional moan. It's boring. It needs to build.

I'd love to see these too. I remember looking through their catalog years back, but never got the chance to watch any of their vids.

Thank you for sharing

I couldn't agree with this more! Even though it seems to be a while ago…
I always refer to spanking as both erotic sexual enjoyment and life-long individual well-being. For long have I imagined a sort a relationship where I could practice both whenever needed. The erotic kind of spanking should be mild, from my point of view, since for me what turns me on is not the severe pain(it depends on one's level of endurance) but the whole process of the spanking ritual. And the serious spanking, or simply addressed as discipline or corporal punishments more popularly, which is adopted as a method to keep one in line if he thinks adults still need to be castigated and righted when making mistakes, should be really painful. It should be strictly education-oriented, no sexuality involved, old-fashioned and therefore renders one squirm around, kick legs, and possibly shed tears and cry out loud.

@jamesbr66:

Hey,

Thanks for bringing this up 🙂

I think there are a variety of folks into spanking, and that includes all genders, some straight guys love being spanked by another guy, but without the
sex, for other guys sex plays a mild or heavier role depending on the appetities of the two individuals.

In the case of partners definately it is included in foreplay or perhaps more and I guess it depends on the relationship as well.  There are also lots of different levels of spanking, from mild erotic to heavier role play and all can be a precurser to sex, or as part of.  In my own situation there are both, we sometimes enjoy erotic sessions followed my some amazing sex and on the other hand as we practice domestic discipline, I can be spanked as punishment which I can tell you always begins with one hell of an erection, but that soon tapers down as my partner reddens my rear end but at the same time that can also lead to some pretty sizzling sex later on …...

Being spanked during our more intimate bedroom fun is always really hot, anything from a few swats to being taken over his lap while we are both naked can be ... well you get the idea I guess 🙂

Anyway there is what i think!

James

This post seems to be a long time ago..
i'm curious how things worked out eventually.

May I speak my opinion that seems too late after two years. I quite agree with the "sexual maturity" statement someone made up there, since I'm exactly the age that 19-yr brat was two years ago, which reminds of a gazillion of examples I've encountered of guys being in their teens or early twenties who argue who'd be the one to fuck and to be fucked. It bothers me a lot since I'm that kinda person who find flip-fucking  a huge turn-on and gets disappointed easily when someone insists not to be fucked. (I have that Hemorrhoid problem too, which is a huge bummer and I'm seriously considering getting rid of it officially through surgery) And in their position, sex is all about "penetrating and being penetrated" if they are not into other sexual activities. I regard spanking as one fairly important role in my life, as both in sexual intercourse and individual's life-long well-being, which requires more investment one's mental performances than his physical behaviors.

Not knowing what the result turned out to be, I would hold my comment as making advice. Actually i should be asking questions… @leatherbear:

Hi Sye,

You probably remember me best as LBC from another site  :hug:

The whole Spanking and Discipline bonding that is created between 2 men takes a certain kind of sexual maturity that most 19 year old's just would not understand or appreciate. I really think that was shown by his "not if I can't fuck you" statement ~ a real lack of sexual maturity. My second clue is the dancer/actor description ~ cliche but often true ~ they are very self centered to begin with and therefore I do not believe he could ever wrap his head around the complex sexual dynamic you desire.

The only option you have is to be very blunt about your desires and see if he is willing to give it a go both passive and active ~ at least from my perceived understanding of your desires. If he had a bad experience you have to explain that he was with a true Sadist who had no respect for boundaries. Explain in detail how things would and should work with you as his partner ~ he knows you are not that jerk at least by now. The risk of slowly breaking him into Spanking and Discipline considering his bad past experience could be dangerous for your relationship and his mental well being.

Sometime you have to risk it all to have it all.

Good luck and best wishes for success.

instead of 10 hard spanks, give him 20 or 30  lighter ones…