rew out of it myself. I won't say that I'm abstinent, but if I'm not in a relationship I find I don't really need sex that much. Beyond that I'm told I'm a little hard to please so good old Mr. Randy Handy takes care of me just fine until the next BF comes along. Personally I believe it's a sign of maturity so why don't you stop trying to hook up and start looking for something more meaningful.
Could not agree with this more. I've never understood those guys that are constantly horny and have to hookup all the time. Maybe it's a higher plane of existence where basic primeval instincts can be overcome? Or maybe it's just lack of caring. Hard to say
