For me things started out like you describe it when I started to be sexuall active! But for me it was a thrill to go deeper each time, the outch feeling beacame pleasure. Like leatherbear said Getting fucked always starts in the Head and moves to the Asshole. One can get obsessed about a certain thing and especially PAIN. So my tip for you relax and get in to it and try to readdress the pain and think about it as pleasure. I think you can feel the diffrence between: I'm geting hurt and outch pain (eg hurt pain = knife cuts you, outch pain = someone pinch you). That worked for me and dildos (start with thin but long ones and then upsize). Now days I don't get the ouch feeling anymore and sometimes I accually miss it (I'm able to take around 25cm).

Hi guys I thought that I should score lower on the pure side  :cry2:

My results came in at: 26% pure: Decidedly Perverted  :cheers: