I'm getting married next year, probably in September and we intend to make it a proper wedding… Ceremony, a big party after the vows, family and everything...
What are your thoughts about it?
Though generally I think marriage is outmoded, just a way for the society to force people to stay together and to announce to it that someone is no longer available, thereby enforcing faithfulness even when the partner can't be trusted, it's fine if it makes people happy. And there are the legal ramifications to consider.
So, why not? It's about time that no one be spared the misery, sense of imprisonment, and the feeling of having a millstone hung around the neck that married people have been forced to experience all these centuries. All marriages are "same sex marriages" - it's the same sex, day after day.