In don't know how people see me because from my point of view I'm me and I think I am masculine, but I have the same situation… I know some gay that don't know I like men and they act almost all like women and it really bother me. They know this (that it bother me) and it seems they exagerate it even more...
Now I found a great guy (with a bigger cock than mine too and I'm a bit jelous ^^) but sometimes he has this feminine attitude that turn me off a bit...