So, I been using some plugs lately to try and get used to having something in my hole and loosening up a bit as well. Ive had the idea of leaving a small plug in my all day and I have seen quite a few vids of guys who can place plugs and other toys inside their holes and they can leave them in. Go about their normal day and return later to take them out, but how exactly do they do this? I have noticed if I leave a toy in for a bit, its hard to get it back out without discomfort. While Im not certain, I believe it is because the lube has dried up. How do guys deal with that.

I can definitely relate to this. I have gotten to the point of feeling pretty ok with getting clean beforehand and i have learned to relax knowing that is very important. Initially I wasn't able to take anything because of this nervousness but now I can hand my small toys and plugs. Despite this, the burning feeling you mentioned is something I continue to experience that ultimately makes it where I can only engage in anal play for a very short amount of time. Im starting to think that its just something I won't get used to.