You me the same OP; Except I am 21 yo, Asian and not buffed but not chubby either - more of a Twink scene. I have alot of friends who found thier bf's through apps/sites and NSA that lead to more, which I tried but no luck.

And as chocslimgd mentioned,

@chocslimgd:

Everyone here has given you great advice, so keep loving yourself and be patient, it will come! 

I haven't had the "comfort" of another male since February Cause I feel like everytime I do, I remind myself of how single I am. Must say life is quite enjoyable when you stop thinking about "oh when am I goin to be like that couple sitting across from me in the train" and focus on things you really enjoy like… well Baking or goin out with friends for me. That said, I must say - I have been feelin' quite lonely lately, especially at night.