Posts made by resnovae

I think i've tried every method under the sun to "loosen up", but nothing has ever really worked for me.  If anything it feels like my sphincter muscle has gotten tighter.  Even just using my fingers to play with my ass is difficult.  Anal sex is very uncomfortable and frustrating for me (hurts a lot, and even burns sometimes no matter how slow or what type of lube is used), despite me really wanting it and being more of a bottom sexually.  It often hurts for several days afterwards.  I can only recount maybe 10 times anal has been actually pleasurable for me in the 10 years i've been sexually active.