I WAS SINGLE FOR 10 YEARS. I GOT INTO CAMMING AND I QUITE ENJOY IT. I LIKE TO SHOW OFF. IT TURNS ME ON AND EXCITES ME. FROM THE BEGINNING I TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT IT. HE WAS COOL WITH IT UNTIL ONE DAY I WAS CHATTING WITH SOMEONE AND I CLOSED THE WINDOW AS HE CAME IN. I TOLD HIM I WAS JUST CHATTING, WELL HE GOT ALL BENT OUT OF SHAPE SAYING I SHOULDN'T BE DOING THAT AND THAT ITS JUST FOR FANTASY SO WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO THEM? AND EVER SINCE HE'S BEEN THREATENING TO LEAVE ME IF I DO IT ALONE ANYMORE. I CAN DO IT WITH HIM, BUT NOT BY MYSELF. I THINK IT'S RIDICULOUS AND HE SAYS IT HURTS HIM IF I DO IT? I DON'T WANT TO BE INSENSITIVE, BUT I JUST DON'T SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM IS. I HAVE NEVER MET ANYONE I CAM WITH AND NEVER WILL.
I have been in a relationship for well over 30 plus years now and from what I have observed in mine and a lot of other long term relationships are that they started off being open and almost definitely non monogamous.I totally believe men wether straight or gay are not supposed to stick to one partner.It's only natural to seek different partners.As for marriage ect(gay or straight)I find the whole concept ridiculously silly and was developed in order to stop men wandering.If I or my partner get horny,we tell each other that were off to the sauna or were off to fuck a certain guy that we've contacted on the internet.We just make sure that for safety reasons that the address were going to is genuine..ect.The bottom line is..Be honest with each other right away with EVERTHING.I honestly have never met anyone who is in a long term monogamous relationship.