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Update: They went of for a coffee together alone when he knew I couldn't remotely be there because I was busy.

Also, his ex now calls more frequently, plus, they went out at about 16:00, my boyfriend had had no sleep the other day so it was expected from him to sleep early that day so he slept from 21:00 but woke up at 11:00 in the morning (14 hours of sleep) plus he also felt sleepy for the rest of the day.

With the combination of his ex's frequent calls, I couldn't help but wonder, did he cheat on me with his ex that day? Met at 16:00, slept at 21:00, 14 hours of sleep. There is a gap there isn't there? Also, they went for a coffee very near his house. Which is strange. I don't know.

I know she totally evil. I do not believe she is his true friend.

Up to now, she hasn't apologized and he hasn't changed his relationship with her. They talk like they used to. It is very annoying and I can't get him to understand how I feel.

I believe in total support when it comes to relationships but he think she is too important for him to give her up but she has insulted me so much.

I love him and I don't want him to give up his friend if she doesn't apologize but I can't stand the thought that my companion is spending time with this evil hag that thinks so little of me.

What happens when your boyfriend's best female friend insults you for no justified reason and generally thinks little of you and has expressed this to your boyfriend?

We're talking about a relationship of 6 to 12 monthsand a friendship of about 6 years.

Would you expect your boyfriend not to talk to her until she apologizes, would it not matter for you if he still talked to her daily even though she never said she's sorry and she still believed all the things she said?

I mean, if your companion doesn't support you, who will? I personally expected from him never to talk to her again until she apologized, but to my surprise, he still does talk to her. They have a lot of history, she has helped him in many ways, plus there was a time when they didn't talk because a his ex-bf asked him too, for like 1,5 years, so now he feels guilty about it and doesn't want that to happen again.

But I feel insulted and betrayed by him, I expected him to support me and he didn't. He fought with her many times, but they didn't reach a conclusion and the result is that they still talk..

I have tried to come to terms with it, but it is really frustrating and it hurts like hell. I feel a dinstance growing between us even though he is generally wonderful as a person, looks, brains and attitude and we have so much fun together, but when she calls him I just feel sad and angry.

Is it okay if you're jealous, when your boyfriend is still friends with his ex-boyfriend with who he had his longest relationship (and only long-term relationship) and have phone and internet communication and sometimes go out for coffee?

What if the ex-boyfriend, was the one who dumped him and is quite hot and acclaimed and has the same age as you?

I can't help but feeling that had he the choice, he would be with him, but I know he does love me. I sometimes feel like a "second choice" meaning, that if he met him now, maybe they would hit it off better.

How do you handle ex-boyfriends? I personally need a lot of energy to not feel jealous, I don't know if it is wrong or not, I used to be in a very bad relationship and there are left-overs from there.