I used to be a good boy and never fantasized anything besides normal sex.
Then men.com happened - now I crack a whip while screaming commands in German, use his faggot mouth as an ashtray, fist his hole while I'm sitting on my sofa, watching tv, and his forearms are resting on the floor, his knees next to my hips, till he's loose enough to shove my beer into his cuntkoozie. Then when he's been punished so many times for not understanding the German commands, that he starts picking up what I'm saying, I switch to Russian so I can get more beatings out of him….
hahahahaha I'm kidding. Men.com fucking sucks. If anything, they're pretty tame and boring to watch. Which was actually what I was finding a place to complain about...but I agree with you that most men try to force their fetish onto you. However, if you try to bring up yours, they're like NO. I'M NOT INTO THAT!!! It's turned me away from hooking up the last few years.
It drives me nuts when I plan a hook up and meet. Then find out the guy hasn't prepped his ass at all, is either doing some drug, or didn't shower/brush his teeth.