I'm pretty sure I'm an aspie, self diagnosed recently in my mid 30s. Always felt "different," but being gay wasn't it, and never really had trouble with social interaction (despite generally not needing much of it). I wouldn't say I'm smarter than anyone else- just that I'm driven by obsessive curiosity to figure out how things (and people) work. I test limits, sometimes with disastrous results.

I like me though.