I am just so interested in how people identify with their sexuality
I am particularly interested in anyone who can agree that we should have a Free Spirit category.
I have always found it difficult myself to categorize myself as any of the classifications because to me they put so much emphasis on one aspect of human interaction, the persons gender. For me, that shouldn't be the number one priority. when i am with someone it is not because they are Male or Female, but because i love them for them, not for what they keep between their legs (So obviously that fits the bisexual category) but Bisexual doesn't really sit right with me either because that still seems to put gender too far up the list of prioritize than on who they are as a person.
My Utopia would be a world no one has to identify with any particular sexuality if they don't want, and they can do what they want with who they want, to treat each other with equality and love. I think excessive categorization and classification of individual groups of people just creates a climate whereby we think we are different from those in a different group, which makes it easier for us to bear hatred and inflict violence.
I hope this makes sense anyway, its a concept that i find actually very difficult to explain to people, because it is just something that i feel intuitively/instinctively, as opposed to something that i logically think.
I am very interested to hear a variety of views on this concept, and would love to chat with anyone who has something to add or a different way to look at it. Either comment here or if your a bit shy i'm open for a PM